I know that there are a wide range of topics discussed here but this one really sucks.
You should be ashamend at yourself for bringing this one up and especially in such a callous and volatile nature -"rape: crime or punishment?". You have obviously not had the misfortune to suffer at the hands of this ugly crime.
The vast majority of rape victims do not bring it upon themselves, and men should have more self-control and humilty to respect a girls wishes if she "leads him on" or whatever other bullsh*t men hark on about. Rapists are men who should be grown up enough to keep it in there pants.
Want doesn't always get. and it certainly shouldn't.