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no one has mentioned men gettin raped by women
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no one has mentioned men gettin raped by women
what's the ratio men being raped by women to women being raped by men?
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why not, what if you want to sleep with a prostitute as prostitution is not illegal (i think) but they can nab you on soliciting.
prostitution is illegal but because most people they realise that being a prostitute is not fun and is done because the women are desperate and need the money so the police go after the punters who use them, and the pimps. why do you think soliciting is illegal?
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[QUOTE'JSM'] why not, what if you want to sleep with a prostitute as prostitution is not illegal (i think) but they can nab you on soliciting.
prostitution is illegal but because most people they realise that being a prostitute is fun and is done because the women are desperate and need the money so the police go after the punters who use them, and the pimps. why do you think soliciting is illegal?[/QUOTE]

punters do not use them, they buy a service.

soliciting is illegal, were you asking me why i think the law stands that way (cos i got nabbed ).
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no one has mentioned men gettin raped by women

Physically, I presume it would be very difficult for a woman to rape a man?
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Physically, I presume it would be very difficult for a woman to rape a man?
no, blokes get errections against their will as well, and actually it is surprisingly high (and they think there are more cos its bit harsh to admit to it).
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surely you could argue porn mitigates it as more men can fanatasise rather than having to do something about it. How a woman dresses, there is trouble with. Blokes can get done for soliciting if they approach a woman in skimpily dressed clothing.

Women should just be careful of drawing attention anyway, like for example if some bloke starts acting aggressive towards me on the train i just walk away, although i could beat the hell outta them (what if they have friends).

google it and you will very quickly find the evidence that this is not true.



"Women should just be careful of drawing attention anyway"

Yes women should be careful if they want to be safe, but it's up to the individual to decide how they want to dress and they shouldn't be punished for it.
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no, blokes get errections against their will as well, and actually it is surprisingly high (and they think there are more cos its bit harsh to admit to it).

There's also the fact though that generally, men are stronger than women.
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google it and you will very quickly find the evidence that this is not true.



"Women should just be careful of drawing attention anyway"

Yes women should be careful if they want to be safe, but it's up to the individual to decide how they want to dress and they shouldn't be punished for it.
evidence that what isnt true and how do you know i have not done it so far. What about all these female hypnotists then (you have to be willing to be submissive to fall under their spell anyway-according to GQ). Look at the S & M clubs, they cater for men wanting to be tied up.

You have to be careful whatever you do and whilst i admit what you wear is a lifestyle choice, it should still be factored in - if you are wearing next to nothing you obviously want people to look at you (drawing atention)- hence drawing {unwanted?} attention otherwise you would cover up - in england especially
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punters do not use them, they buy a service.

soliciting is illegal, were you asking me why i think the law stands that way (cos i got nabbed ).
the law doesnt stand that way cos you got nabbed, there is a reason behind it other wise it wouldnt be law. what were u doing at the time? did it go on your record? punters do use them do u think prostitutes have a hight level of job statisfaction?
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There's also the fact though that generally, men are stronger than women.
so, blokes stil get raped and most are too scared to admit it cos they would be rejected by most of their mates. and there are a lot of butch women out there mate. What about blokes that have been socialised (wrongly - but i dont want a discussion over it) not to be violent to women.
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the law doesnt stand that way cos you got nabbed, there is a reason behind it other wise it wouldnt be law. what were u doing at the time? did it go on your record? punters do use them do u think prostitutes have a hight level of job statisfaction?
um, im 16 - i didnt get nabbed (there are girls willing for free). Prostitutes might have a high level of job satisfaction as they either enjoy/ or liek the money they earn as otehrwise they could go and drive buses for £10 and hour and face the same level of danger.
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the law doesnt stand that way cos you got nabbed, there is a reason behind it other wise it wouldnt be law. what were u doing at the time? did it go on your record? punters do use them do u think prostitutes have a hight level of job statisfaction?

well since none of us are prostitutes i don't think we can judge on their level of job satisfaction...surely that differs for everyone and u can't group them all together
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so, blokes stil get raped and most are too scared to admit it cos they would be rejected by most of their mates. and there are a lot of butch women out there mate. What about blokes that have been socialised (wrongly - but i dont want a discussion over it) not to be violent to women.
so i guess you are scared of going out then
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evidence that what isnt true and how do you know i have not done it so far. What about all these female hypnotists then (you have to be willing to be submissive to fall under their spell anyway-according to GQ). Look at the S & M clubs, they cater for men wanting to be tied up.

You have to be careful whatever you do and whilst i admit what you wear is a lifestyle choice, it should still be factored in - if you are wearing next to nothing you obviously want people to look at you (drawing atention)- hence drawing {unwanted?} attention otherwise you would cover up - in england especially



Porn makes people more aggressive and less shocked by violent crime etc, the statistics are there. I suppose you haven't done this because your post certainly implies you haven't.

Are you seriously saying to me that a woman who wears revealing clothing is inviting rapists? Don't you think she has the right to wear what she likes (note I agree, this isn't a very clever thing to do)
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so i guess you are scared of going out then
no chance, im not scared of any women, ill take care of myself and hit them back.
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no chance, im not scared of any women, ill take care of myself and hit them back.
such a gentleman
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Porn makes people more aggressive and less shocked by violent crime etc, the statistics are there. I suppose you haven't done this because your post certainly implies you haven't.

Are you seriously saying to me that a woman who wears revealing clothing is inviting rapists? Don't you think she has the right to wear what she likes (note I agree, this isn't a very clever thing to do)

theres a line between nice modest yet fashionable clothing and completely revealing no point in actually wearing anything clothes...sure people have a choice to what they wear and do, but they have to face the problems caused. i don't think 'inviting' is quite the word... its more leading people on..
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Porn makes people more aggressive and less shocked by violent crime etc, the statistics are there. I suppose you haven't done this because your post certainly implies you haven't.

Are you seriously saying to me that a woman who wears revealing clothing is inviting rapists? Don't you think she has the right to wear what she likes (note I agree, this isn't a very clever thing to do)
stats are worth bull, cos i can manipulate them. However, maybe it keeps these people off the streets. I havnt although i do no what is out there. Blokes have fantasies about being dominent but in reality most blokes have been conditioned to be submissive.

No i am not saying she is inviting rapists, i am saying she is inviting attention (on purpose), but attention can be the wrong type. I would agree she has the right to wear what she wants, but she wants to wear it to invite attention.
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and i'd like to add that i'm not suggesting by leading on they necesarily mean 'rape me!' but it does seem more appealing than 'i'm wearing a huge jumper, look how sexy i am'
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