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Some advice please ....

Just been dumped by my (now ex-) girlfriend - by email as well, apparently the phone wouldn't work!? We've been going out for the best part of 6 months, and we've had our ups and downs before.
I've come to realise that this girl is the first ever gf of mine i think i actually love. That she's dumped me is by the by, obviosuly it hurts but hey .... the world goes one.
The question is: should i tell her i love her or not? It's not a question of trying to win her back - it's just something i want to get of my chest and i think she deserves to know.

Will this wreck any chance of us remaining perhaps even friends?
cheers
Reply 1
From personal experience i wouldn't!
Do you want her back? If you think it might help you to get back together, maybe it's worth a try. However, there's a chance she'll think you're saying it just to get with her. Also, if you just want to stay friends it will probably put too much pressure on her to be your friend. I hope you're not too confused :smile:
Reply 3
Duff Paddy
Just been dumped by my (now ex-) girlfriend - by email as well, apparently the phone wouldn't work!? We've been going out for the best part of 6 months, and we've had our ups and downs before.
I've come to realise that this girl is the first ever gf of mine i think i actually love. That she's dumped me is by the by, obviosuly it hurts but hey .... the world goes one.
The question is: should i tell her i love her or not? It's not a question of trying to win her back - it's just something i want to get of my chest and i think she deserves to know.

Will this wreck any chance of us remaining perhaps even friends?
cheers


deserves to know? your havin a laugh!!!!!!!!! she doesnt care if she dumped u by email. i wouldnt even wanna be friends if i was u!!!!!!!!go find someone else is the best thing to do.
Reply 4
Awwh thats got to hurt hun. I think Dumping you by email or even if she was trying to on phone is a pretty bad way to get dumped - Suggests that she doesnt want to do it face to face. Maybe it may help actually talking to her about it.. Asking why she dumped you. If she gives you reasons you feel you could amend maybe its good thing to let her know how you feel.
But on another perspective it may be highly likley she wont want to talk about it, and that you just telling her you Love her may make any future friendship like lil said uncomfortable.
End of the day its down to the fact that do you think telling her that you love her will change anything?