The Student Room Group
Reply 1
Dragoness
Right in a previous post i have said ths guy hu i really like doesnt want to go out with me. :frown: im really upset about it :frown: how do i make him want me?

he is a shy one tho and hardly talks :frown:

Thanks xx


errr... is it actually possible??
Reply 2
If a guy really doesn't wanna go out with you, then there is not really much you can do i'm sorry!

Without the risk of looking desperate anyway!
Reply 3
make out with any guy you can find in front of him.
Reply 4
trixx
make out with any guy you can find in front of him.

If he really doesn't want to go out with her he will not be bothered in the slighhtest if she does this.

He may even breath a sigh of relief!
Reply 5
buttons7
errr... is it actually possible??

Are you joking?! :eek:
Men are so easily manipulated it's unreal! (especially young men)
Reply 6
he doesent want a girlfiend in general atm. so dont know if its got anything to do with him not liking me because he kissed me. :frown:
Reply 7
blissy
Are you joking?! :eek:
Men are so easily manipulated it's unreal! (especially young men)

CORRECTION!!!

Girls can get a lad wrapped around there finger...if he fancies them.

If this lads already turned her down, then i don't think she has a chance!
Reply 8
To be honest, If he doesnt want to go out with you, Is he worth it?

Only thing Id suggest is get on with your life.. If he realises he wants to be with you, You will know it will be for genuine reasons (Although a bit of flesh and flirting never hurt.. :biggrin: )
Reply 9
Your best bet is on a night out...after he's had a few beers aproach him then!

But untill you get that chance, just play it cool, speak to other guys in college and not just concentrate your time on him.

If he does like you and he just doesn't want a relationship then this will probably do his head in, and he will approach you sooner rather than later.
Reply 10
Book-worm
Your best bet is on a night out...after he's had a few beers aproach him then!

But untill you get that chance, just play it cool, speak to other guys in college and not just concentrate your time on him.

If he does like you and he just doesn't want a relationship then this will probably do his head in, and he will approach you sooner rather than later.


So wait till hes drunk? Nice.
Reply 11
Hanzing
So wait till hes drunk? Nice.

In a nutshell....YES
Reply 12
You can't really make some one feel that way. You can make some one see you in a different light, but you can't change how he feels deep down.
Go after some one who is worth your time and effort- don't change your self for a guy.EVER!
:smile:
Reply 13
I think you should try maybe one more time, but then just leave it and get to meet others and try to forget him. If he later realises he's made a mistake he will come to you, but I don't think it's worth pursueing him too much... that would probably annoy him and not make him want to go out with you really. Just let it be for a while and maybe later some time he'll regret that he said no and come to you. Your best bet though is to try and find someone else who does want to go out with you :smile:
Reply 14
Te bend and snap works every time apparently. Just saw legally blonde for the first time and it's suprisngly good.

I reckon that any attention you get by putting it about in front of him is the wrong kind, maybe just leave it a bit and it might sort itself?
Reply 15
"Oh my god! The bend and Snap, Works everytime" :biggrin:
Love that film.
Reply 16
blissy
Are you joking?! :eek:
Men are so easily manipulated it's unreal! (especially young men)


i'm sure they can be manipulated... if the desired result is simply a sexual union. but i kinda meant that i didn't think it was possible to make a guy genuinely like you if he isn't interested. however, if it's purely a physical thing that's wanted then i'm sure throwing oneself at a guy and basically handing it to him on a plate would do the trick.