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Relatinships are not worth it.

RedRenengade

no they are not
*hurty*

is it better not to have any?

Reply 1

blissy

15

But you relate to every other person in one way or another :smile:

. Relationships are essential - and good ones are great. If they're not good then they're hurty ( :frown:

)and you're better off without them.

Reply 2

RedRenengade

OP

i think the amount of hurt and trouble they cause is not justified by the means.
they just mess u up. im not gay im just not interested in having any more relationships

Reply 3

mypaperheart

16

People would be lonely without relationships :frown:

Reply 4

Duck and Cover

15

Redrenegade. I totally agree.

Reply 5

Fyska

9

Rosalily

People would be lonely without relationships :frown:

The human race would be struggling to exist without them!

Reply 6

andyj72

2

you can class friendship as a form of relationship you have with a friend. if you didnt have such relationship and had no friends you will be so lonely.

the other types of relationships that involve two people e.g between boy and girls can hurt at times but its all about finding the right person

Reply 7

RedRenengade

OP

ya but wat im saying is, the amount of pain caused when they break up is so hurty its best not to have any in the first place

Reply 8

andyj72

2

yea true but there will come a time when you will want to have a companion. i do now seeing i havent had one.

Reply 9

RedRenengade

OP

yaaa but it huuurts im naturally sensitive and jealous and i get all encompassed by my lov so when it goes a bit wrong it hhhuuuurrrttrttrrrsss. im destined to be alone in this world .....

Erm....you've never dated?

Reply 10

Little Girl Red

1

maybe try not to get so attached until you've been together for quite a while? or maybe see how life is as a single for a while. its not so bad.

Reply 11

TheLameMonkey

I like relationships, at least, I like the one I have now :redface:

Reply 12

bret

12

once you've had a few one night stands and lived the single life for a while you'll relise it'll be worth the risk in the long term.

Going out, socialising and sex is so much better when with someone you care about.

Reply 13

SuperhansFavouriteAlsatian

As Will Young once put so fantastically, "but if i lose the highs, at least i'm spared the lows"

Reply 14

RedRenengade

OP

I'm going to stop this here. I wanted to make this thread and see how far it could go with the original responses of the creator but just realised she was female and thus i would apear riddiculously gay. but here ya go anyway.

Dangi'tn

Reply 15

TheLameMonkey

RedRenengade

I'm going to stop this here. I wanted to make this thread and see how far it could go with the original responses of the creator but just realised she was female and thus i would apear riddiculously gay. but here ya go anyway.

Dangi'tn

you're insane :/

Reply 16

RedRenengade

OP

Fyska told you!!!

:frown:

I just wanted to say hi.

psh, monkey *****r. :smile:

Do you get it, haha I crack me up.

Reply 17

Arry_Munk

relationships are pretty cool, but better at a later age eg mid to late 20's onwards. the amount of people coming to me and saying 'oh my god if i wasnt in a relationship i would do this i would do that' blah blah blah.........

find yourself, live your life first, shag it, piss it up, do the things you cannot do in a relationship, then settle down

Reply 18

Punkjunkie04

RedRenengade

ya but wat im saying is, the amount of pain caused when they break up is so hurty its best not to have any in the first place

Ok if you ate the world's nicest ice cream, tasted sooo good, and then as you were eating you dropped the bowl because your hands turned out to be too sweaty for that bowl (lmao awful metaphor)...would that mean that the pain caused by having to mop up whats left of the broken bowl and all that metled ice cream off the floor meant that it didnt taste good in the first place? No. Relationships are never pointless: we learn something about ourselves from each one. Yes, the longer they are the more it hurts if/when they end, but that link between two people should never be regretted. You're feelings can change, you can even stop loving somebody, but you have memories and you have grown as part of it. Sort of like learning from your mistakes but in a far better way.

Never poo-poo a good relationship lol

Reply 19

RobbieC

15

The pain is all part of life. If you never had any relationships, you would never grow as a person.. and you most certainly wouldn't be challenged on any level. It is a most frightening concept that a person could even think their most primal instincts toward community could just cease to exist. There isn't really a way to avoid pain in relationships, but there are ways to appreciate the love and the menagerie of good things you get out of them.

Relatinships are not worth it.

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