Befriending a girl?

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haha im in the exact same situation with a boy at school...its so odd we say nothing to each other even though we hang around with the same people

Reply 2

r_raghav11

how abt just talking to them. No gain no loss. :rolleyes:

Reply 3

r_raghav11

just talk to 'em about it! :rolleyes:

Reply 4

Lady Narcissus

Don't get your hopes up though, I did that and had my heart broken. I hope you have better luck than me, I really do.

Reply 5

lenaess1

I agree dont get your hopes up. i tried to as this one girl out and she just laughed in my face. :frown:

Reply 6

Zerforax

*waits for someone to post that they got their hopes up, had the balls to do it, and are now happily married for 60 years*

Reply 7

keyka

i told a guy that i liked for ages who i felt, he turned me down cos he was just about to go one his gap year. while he was away we became really good friends, and 9 months after i first told him he asked me out and we've now been together 15 months! :biggrin:

Reply 8

SketchyCanvas~

Try and find something that both of you are interested in, for example, find out what societies shes in and start a convo with her on it.

Reply 9

El Stevo

SketchyCanvas

Try and find something that both of you are interested in, for example, find out what societies shes in and start a convo with her on it.

but don't become interested in what she does because she does it. thats called stalking. just get talkin with her one day - opportunities must arise around uni - and then offer to meet up for a drink or something see how things go - you'll get an idea of whether you want to go for it or not, and if you decide you do, then do.

Reply 10

~Raven~

How can you like someone for over a year and never have spoken to her?

Anyway... I'd do something really stupid (and probably embarass myself!) like drop something in front of them, or fall over their chair, and start a conversation from there.

Actually, don't take my advice! Good luck!

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adogintheocean

i went through college for 2 years really liking a girl in my group tutor and used to talk to her but i never aske dher out through fear of rejection now i dont speak to her as i'm in uni and shes doin art foundation in college

Reply 12

Profesh

adogintheocean

And the moral of this story, is...

...is...

Actually, I've no f*cking idea.

Reply 13

adogintheocean

dont hold ur feeling to urself. tell her. cos otherwise u'll regret it

Reply 14

Profesh

adogintheocean

dont hold ur feeling to urself. tell her. cos otherwise u'll regret it

Thankyou for the elucidation.

your welcome

I'd just like to say I'm currently in exactly the same situation. (Not entirely hopless in my case though, although she isn't in any of my classes anymore I hang around with the same group of friends as her. We just never seem to say much)

I sympathise, I really do, but if you're unwilling to just forget about her you have to do something. I'm not exactly talking a proposal here, just get to know her, maybe throught mutual friends. Say hi when you see her (don't make this scary though) and just be generally thoughtful and polite. Lending stationary also helps! :wink: