There is only hope if one tries. Without trying, there will be zero possibility. Try and hope on that one percent and we might be surprised. Do you not agree?
Anyway, there seems no rationale that a 14 year old on the other side of the globe decides to chase or correspond with Eton boys in Britain. However, is there rationale to the fact that a fan from Britain would support and learn about an American singer/popstar (for that matter?), who is also across the oceans? Do you not agree there is less chance of meeting that popstar, as compared to an Eton boy?
I agree with your point that OEs and Harrovians might consider it below them to visit this forum, not nonetheless, there is no harm in trying.
I am infatuated with the gentlemanly charm of the Etonians, who I have met, and am looking to know more. Is that a crime itself? Perhaps this is just a childish phase of a girl's adolescence, do not know.