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need help, 2 girls

ok, the ginger head girl that i was going out with, well we split up a few days ago, so the hair thread was pointless (but i still learned alot) but thanks for helping me in the hair thread

i am a bit sad actually very sad but kinda pissed off at the moment becuase now she is going out with one of my friends

How do you think my friend feels now that he is going out with my ex-gf a few days before after we broke off? Any experiences before? (I think he feels a bit guilt when ever he talks to me, but i cannot blaim him that girl was really really hot, so its difficult to reject her.)

Well now there is this girl in my year, she is also very pretty, and i knew her for about a year or so. She knows me by sight, and maybe my name, and i really want to talk to her and be friends with her and possibly girl friend in the future. We hardly talk (about 10 seconds in total), we are in the same class for Maths, but nothing else and i do not see her except in Maths, and at lunchtime, and in corridors, we sat on the same table but like never speak to each other, and in Maths it is like so hard to speak to her, the teacher is so strict u cannot like chit-chat and stuff, and i am like quite far away from her in the Mathematics classroom. So how do i approach her or like talk to her etc..?

Reply 1

we'll you've both got common ground - maths!

Start off an innocent conversation about homework or something and take it from there. :smile:

Reply 2

straight after maths? or do you have to hurry to another class straight away?

Reply 3

i agree with Fluff.if she's good at math,tell her that you need help.if she's bad at it,go and complain to her about how math sucks:eek:

Reply 4

I would love any guy who was prepared to help me with my maths!

Reply 5

If you can't talk, why not try writing a little flirty note.

This has worked for me when i was at school, it's less nervewracking than talking to her for the first time...

Reply 6

I would love any girl who asked me to help her with maths (or anything else really.)

Reply 7

Book-worm's is a ridiculously gay idea. I'm guessing he's not 9 years old.

Just go and chat to her after a maths lesson.

Reply 8

Chris.
Book-worm's is a ridiculously gay idea. I'm guessing he's not 9 years old.

Just go and chat to her after a maths lesson.


:biggrin: I love this guy he cracks me up.

Reply 9

harryamos
ok, the ginger head girl that i was going out with, well we split up a few days ago, so the hair thread was pointless (but i still learned alot) but thanks for helping me in the hair thread

i am a bit sad actually very sad but kinda pissed off at the moment becuase now she is going out with one of my friends

How do you think my friend feels now that he is going out with my ex-gf a few days before after we broke off? Any experiences before? (I think he feels a bit guilt when ever he talks to me, but i cannot blaim him that girl was really really hot, so its difficult to reject her.)

Well now there is this girl in my year, she is also very pretty, and i knew her for about a year or so. She knows me by sight, and maybe my name, and i really want to talk to her and be friends with her and possibly girl friend in the future. We hardly talk (about 10 seconds in total), we are in the same class for Maths, but nothing else and i do not see her except in Maths, and at lunchtime, and in corridors, we sat on the same table but like never speak to each other, and in Maths it is like so hard to speak to her, the teacher is so strict u cannot like chit-chat and stuff, and i am like quite far away from her in the Mathematics classroom. So how do i approach her or like talk to her etc..?

just go up to her in the common room and talk, ask about maths homework.then the convo develops.if she likes u she will keep talking to you.if not she will be just be quite probably.
also you may try make some jokes on maths if it is possible.make her laugh so at least she will know that u exist.haha

Reply 10

btw how do i change my username?is it possible/?

Reply 11

IZZY!
btw how do i change my username?is it possible/?

Make a new account.

Anyway, obviously you must exploit your shared adoration of mathematics. After the lesson, spark up light conversation about symmetric Cauchy-Riemann manifolds, and allow things to progress naturally from there. She'll be carrying your babies by Christmas.

Reply 12

Chris.
Book-worm's is a ridiculously gay idea. I'm guessing he's not 9 years old.

Just go and chat to her after a maths lesson.

Why don't you try sticking your head up your ar'se

Reply 13

I picked up on a few things why i suggested a note.

1)He has "knew" her for a year but he doesn't know for certain if she knows his name
2)He has knew her for a year but only spoke for 10 seconds in total
3)His ex bird finished with him only a few days ago and his already going out with his friend!

He does sound quite young, and hardly sounds like Mr Batchelor!

Reply 14

Book-worm
If you can't talk, why not try writing a little flirty note.

This has worked for me when i was at school, it's less nervewracking than talking to her for the first time...


NO dont do the note thing, seriously. dont write down your feelings, its a very bad idea. ive done it before and lets just say its not gone well! she may pass it around or someone might see it and tell everyone. how embarassing would that be!

just chat to her after class or something or at lunch or break. :smile:

by the way, how are you about your friend going out with ur ex? cos my friend split from her ex about a month ago and she saw his mate out last week and they kissed and they really like each other. her ex knows about it now and he says he's ok with it but we've been thinking about how fe actually feels and how we would feel. i dont think id like it.

karen x

Reply 15

ok thanks for all the replys, will look into it

sparkle86 - i dont really care that much anyways, i try to get over it

i was at first a bit pissed at my ex actually that my ex is going out with my best mate, but ah well, i'll just find another girl :smile:

luckily i did not have sex with her