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prolly one of these threads alredy

o k u lot r prolly tired of hearing this, but theres this guy right...i fancied him for a while, n then i got his email add thru a friend n added him to msn, n then one day he cam online n we started chatting. I didnt know him that well cos he was in the year below me (that didnt stop me liking him tho) but when i started chatting to him online we got to know each other etc. then a few wks later my guy friend was sayying tht i shud tell him that i like him, n my m8 kept sayin i had nothin to lose so i did it! i told him n everything went ok, i mean like the guy i liked sed no that he didnt like me cos he had jus cum out of a relationship but he was ok to me abt it, in the sense that he sed we cud still b friends n we still r, we chat even now, but i still kinda like him but not as much as b4, but its still there....any advice...or am i goin along the right tracks jus bein mates with him... :confused:
well go along wiht benig mates with him, you never know that romance may build again and he might be ready for it at a later point. just go with the flow and if you can get to be really good mates with him then try askinghim again, i am sure by that point your friendship will be strong enough to last even hif he rejects you again, but keep at it, i am sure he will give in in the end... best of lcuk with it, but the best advice i can give it get to know him as well as possible and you will know when the time is right...

good luck!
Just carry on being friends with him because his probaly still hurt from his other relationship and still recovering from it. Just give it time.
Reply 3
nah he's not hurt from n e other relationship..he tlks to me abt girls n stuff as we r "mates"....ah complicated...so annoying lol but now when we chat on msn , recently he aint been sayin much to me..more like one worded answers i dunno wos happend , i definately kniow i aint sed n e thing ..i guess i have seen the true colours shining thru :biggrin:
You don't know what happened?

You completely freaked him out by saying you like him. I'm surprised you're even getting one-worded answers.
Reply 5
TheLameSaint
You don't know what happened?

You completely freaked him out by saying you like him. I'm surprised you're even getting one-worded answers.



No i mean like we used to chat for hours!! abt random things, n he was "normal" but recently its like he tlks as if we r strangers or sumthing?
Boys..such complicated beings! :p:
Reply 6
Unfortunately if you like one of your friends and they just want to be friends theres not much you can do about it. You just have to accept it and get on with life.
Tomski
Unfortunately if you like one of your friends and they just want to be friends theres not much you can do about it. You just have to accept it and get on with life.


ditto.
Reply 8
im tired of hearing it... but ill help you anyway.
'the guy i liked sed no that he didnt like me cos he had jus cum out of a relationship'
ok, thats not something a real person bases the foundation of liking or not liking someone on. its like saying 'i dont like you because im moving to america'. doesnt make sense. yes, it can stop any possibility of a relationship, but it does not stop any attraction. its just stupid, think about it. anyway, be mates and nothing more - you will be lucky to be mates at least.
Reply 9
RoCkPoRt
im tired of hearing it... but ill help you anyway.
'the guy i liked sed no that he didnt like me cos he had jus cum out of a relationship'
ok, thats not something a real person bases the foundation of liking or not liking someone on. its like saying 'i dont like you because im moving to america'. doesnt make sense. yes, it can stop any possibility of a relationship, but it does not stop any attraction. its just stupid, think about it. anyway, be mates and nothing more - you will be lucky to be mates at least.



very true..thx for that