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My flatmate fancies me...

My new flatmate that moved in when I was in Thailand...well to cut a long story short, I think he fancies me. Ok so I know he fancies me. I don't know what to do cuz he's cool to hang out with but I don't want to give him the wrong idea.
I have no interest in him whatsoever and it wouldn't be a problem except he lives in the same place as me. Any tips?

Reply 1

r_raghav11

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if he expresses his feeling towards ya then u cud tell him ur not interested. Else just relax and dont say anything!

Reply 2

The Fluff

OP

Lol makes sense, except he also has a girlfriend......who is my friend and it's all a bit messy.

Reply 3

SlyPie

12

Just talk about your "boyfriend" or how you love a guy. He'll get the point and draw the line at friendship.

Reply 4

The Fluff

OP

SlyPie

Just talk about your "boyfriend" or how you love a guy. He'll get the point and draw the line at friendship.

Lol the guy just witnessed my whole end of an era with my ex. We finally called it quits today and he was the first person i saw and told. LOL

Reply 5

SlyPie

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The Fluff

Lol the guy just witnessed my whole end of an era with my ex. We finally called it quits today and he was the first person i saw and told. LOL

Damn. Can you get a guy friend to pretend to be dating you?

Reply 6

The Fluff

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SlyPie

Damn. Can you get a guy friend to pretend to be dating you?

Haha in the space of a few hours?

Nah. If I just act totally ditzy about the whole situation maybe he'll run out of steam. Wow, i'm having a really crazy week. He's the second person i've got chasing me. Haha. Lol it's my week to pull lol.

Reply 7

fuglyduckling

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Wow. A hard nut to crack.

Yeah... just talk about this guy that you like (he doesn't have to exist), and make sure you don't flirt with him. He should get the message. If he does say anything about you getting together, just say: "Haha. Seriously. We're such good friends it'd feel like incest - you are like a brother to me." I mean, what can you say to that?!

Reply 8

The Fluff

OP

Haha lol good idea. It's a bit hard considering I've known this guy like 3 days. But he knows everything about me already lol.

He's def the guy my dad would want me to be with, he's Northumbrian LOL

Reply 9

Beni

or tell him that you had enough of Men especially after your ex....and tell him that you have turned lesbian..that would put him off...I guess :confused:

Reply 10

SlyPie

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The Fluff

Haha lol good idea. It's a bit hard considering I've known this guy like 3 days. But he knows everything about me already lol.

He's def the guy my dad would want me to be with, he's Northumbrian LOL

Hey, this is off topic but your ex bf Pete is a hottie...I like his hair esp.

But Clarkey's idea is pretty good: the whole incest bit.

Reply 11

The Fluff

OP

SlyPie

Hey, this is off topic but your ex bf Pete is a hottie...I like his hair esp.

But Clarkey's idea is pretty good: the whole incest bit.

How do you know pete?!??!

EDIT: Just realised about the livejournal link and the tribute to pete in there hahaaa

Pete's funnn

Reply 12

SlyPie

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The Fluff

How do you know pete?!??!

haha your webpage on your profile!! (I'm not a stalker.)

He's good-looking...

Reply 13

The Fluff

OP

SlyPie

haha your webpage on your profile!! (I'm not a stalker.)

He's good-looking...

Yeah his band just got signed and stuff, they've got an album and single being released worldwide.

If he gets famous it will be amusing. I'll be like haha i took your virginity and I saw you kiss my other ex-bf hahaha

Reply 14

......?

It's not pete doherty right?

Reply 15

zooropa

The Fluff

My new flatmate that moved in when I was in Thailand...well to cut a long story short, I think he fancies me. Ok so I know he fancies me. I don't know what to do cuz he's cool to hang out with but I don't want to give him the wrong idea.
I have no interest in him whatsoever and it wouldn't be a problem except he lives in the same place as me. Any tips?

Tell him that you like him as a friend, but you aren't really interested in a relationship.

Reply 16

saz_1989

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Talk about how you don't want a relationship. Possibly drool over people on tv that don't look anything like him. Tell him your type and describe the opposite of him.