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Is it cheating?

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Ludicrously reductionist. It might be; it might not: very much depends on the circumstances.

Reply 2

username9303

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If I read e-mails that my girlfriend had sent to some other fella telling him how she'd like to screw him or whatever then to me that signifies that she wants to cheat on me and thats just as bad as actually doing it, because the intent is there - so she would be out the door.

ollie :biggrin:

Reply 3

Profesh

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olliemccowan

If I read e-mails that my girlfriend had sent to some other fella telling him how she'd like to screw him or whatever then to me that signifies that she wants to cheat on me and thats just as bad as actually doing it, because the intent is there - so she would be out the door.

ollie :biggrin:

Quite. Unfortunately, despite the obvious depth and poignancy of NakedNinja's emotional predicament, ' :frown:

' succeeds in saying both everything and nothing, simultaneously.

Wouldst care, perchance, to elucidate?

Reply 4

username21537

2

If you need to ask if its cheating, it almost certainly is.

Reply 5

Hayley_2k4

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olliemccowan

If I read e-mails that my girlfriend had sent to some other fella telling him how she'd like to screw him or whatever then to me that signifies that she wants to cheat on me and thats just as bad as actually doing it, because the intent is there - so she would be out the door.

ollie :biggrin:

I agree. intent is enough

Reply 6

saz_1989

2

It's cheating, and it's sad.

Reply 7

A.J

I voted no by mistake, but yes it is definately cheating.

Reply 8

harryamos

if u want to see them naked, and u see them naked, then ye

I dont think it is.

Definately is! If you were happy with your boyfriend/girlfriend then why the hell would you feel the need to get close to somebody else in that way? It's like if a married man with little sex life goes to a prostitute (who he doesn't love in the slightest) even though he loves his wife, and claims it's ok "because she doesn't mean anything" to him. It's *******s- if i found my partner doing something like that i would seriously question whether she wanted to be with me.

Reply 11

RobbieC

15

It is something that we like to call an emotional affair. You are not really breaking your relationship physically, but rather than actually amending any communication or understanding issues you have with your partner, you are just saying '**** it' and moving on to someone who you think understands you, but probably just wants to talk dirty, because they are a depraved pervert. So, yeah i'd say it is cheating.

Reply 12

FunkykindaGal

1

I think that is cheating, I would be so upset if my boyfriend did that to me.

Reply 13

Cirsium

19

I think if it would seriously upset your partner then it's cheating regardless of any sexual contact.

Reply 14

TKR

15

it's cheating - it's not about where you put your willy, it's about your intent and your emotions

Reply 15

NDGAARONDI

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Lauren

It's cheating, and it's sad.

Each to their own.

Reply 16

Silentscores

Yeah, i think it's cheating, sometimes the emotional cheating can be worse than the physical i reckon, whether they're just chatty emails with intent or full blown sex sessions over the net, you're going online specifically for that purpose, whereas physical, even though that still hurts and is wrong, happens and you can be angry. When your boyfriend/girlfriend starts looking for someone else on more than a sexual level, thats gotta hurt right?

Reply 17

hazzawazza

it's not cheating as such, but i would still feel very hurt, so i guess it is in a way.

Reply 18

Logan

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if i was to discover my GF doing such acts, i would be very displeased.

Reply 19

wednesburywench

2

yes it is cheating, if they are doing that then they obviously arnt happy with you and want to go with sum1 else even tho they havent yet. If my boyfriend did that to me i would be dead upset n i wud ata rethink our relationship

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