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Hey! well i know that this is a really girlie question to ask and not really relevant to this site but its just that i am going on my first date with this guy that i really really really like on saturday and we are going shopping in manchester. It just that i have no idea what to wear as afterward we are goin to the cinema and shopping and bars later. He is really trendy and goodlooking with the most amazing personality. but i dnt know whether i should wear a skirt or pants, dress up or down? look like ive made an effort? do guys like to know u have made an effort? ahhhhh help please!!!!!!!
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Hey! well i know that this is a really girlie question to ask and not really relevant to this site but its just that i am going on my first date with this guy that i really really really like on saturday and we are going shopping in manchester. It just that i have no idea what to wear as afterward we are goin to the cinema and shopping and bars later. He is really trendy and goodlooking with the most amazing personality. but i dnt know whether i should wear a skirt or pants, dress up or down? look like ive made an effort? do guys like to know u have made an effort? ahhhhh help please!!!!!!!
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Skirt-miniskirt.
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aww thanx, i was thinking bout wearing a skirt, not a mini tho as probably be a bit too cold for that! ne idea what would be the best film to see! i wana see love actually. ne1 seen it?
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Skirt-miniskirt.
Well it would put me off if you wore that to go shopping in, much to tarty

Try this: red high heel boots/eskimo boots, blue denim jeans, pink or white wollen polo-neck, and a nice coat.

Lol maybe i have no idea... i'm sure i will never be able to dress a girl, but i know what i like on someone and it wouldn't be a miniskirt, especially in the cold.
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Skirt definatly but just reasonably casual, but striking girls wear similar types of clothes whereever they're going
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there should be a comma between striking and girls, so it reads correctly
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aww thanx, i was thinking bout wearing a skirt, not a mini tho as probably be a bit too cold for that! ne idea what would be the best film to see! i wana see love actually. ne1 seen it?
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If your going to the cinema then definitly go see the new lord of the rings film, its still at #1 and its excellent although i guess you may both have seen that so in that case go and see The Last Samurai
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aww thanx, i was thinking bout wearing a skirt, not a mini tho as probably be a bit too cold for that! ne idea what would be the best film to see! i wana see love actually. ne1 seen it?
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Yes, I've seen it.

I'm not a boy but if I were you I'd stay casual but look like I've made an effort. So probaly jeans and a nice top and jacket really.
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there should be a comma between striking and girls, so it reads correctly
Go for nice fitting trousers
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Yes, I've seen it.

I'm not a boy but if I were you I'd stay casual but look like I've made an effort. So probaly jeans and a nice top and jacket really.
Thats almost what i said :d and i am a boy
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men who go shopping with members of the opposite sex are either gay or married - and if u wish to extend the stereotype the really trendy men are probably gay - but this is more a comical observation than an opinion. I reckon u should wear something understated which is trendy but not inconvenient. Try a nice top - low cut / or otherwise with a tight pair of jeans which say 'bite me' on the backside!
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In my opinion men who go shopping with members of the opposite sex are either gay or married - and if u wish to extend the stereotype the really trendy men are probably gay - but this is more a comical observation than an opinion. I reckon u should wear something understated which is trendy but not inconvenient. Try a nice top - low cut / or otherwise with a tight pair of jeans which say 'bite me' on the backside!
LOL i agree completely... well not completely i think its okay to go shopping if you are attracted to the girl, and are using it as an excuse for her to get to know you... in which case its an excuse for both of you to spend the day together as 'friends' and probably do little shopping anyway. Otherwise every guy has to go shopping once in a while, to get a presents for your girfriends/wives. Also food shopping and games shopping is okay, equally i believe the correct thing to do is to accompany your girl shopping, if she would like you to be with her.

Also if you think like that then just think of the proportion of males to females
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Well thanx everyone! how about wearing light denium jeans quite tight with black high pointed shoes, a black top and a pin striped blazer over the top. Oh and a black scarf to keep me warm! :P what do you think?
i have seen lord of the rings! amazing film! so we'll probably go and c omething else. what do guys think when a girl offers to pay for the cinema tickets? r u offended?
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Well thanx everyone! how about wearing light denium jeans quite tight with black high pointed shoes, a black top and a pin striped blazer over the top. Oh and a black scarf to keep me warm! :P what do you think?
i have seen lord of the rings! amazing film! so we'll probably go and c omething else. what do guys think when a girl offers to pay for the cinema tickets? r u offended?
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Not offended as such, but surprised. He may have something on/and might think you are being desperate-if you are onto him, otherwise as being friends its perfectly fine.
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what do guys think when a girl offers to pay for the cinema tickets? r u offended?
Well, it'd save a few quid. I wouldn't complain.
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If in doubt, go nude.
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LOL i agree completely... well not completely i think its okay to go shopping if you are attracted to the girl, and are using it as an excuse for her to get to know you... in which case its an excuse for both of you to spend the day together as 'friends' and probably do little shopping anyway. Otherwise every guy has to go shopping once in a while, to get a presents for your girfriends/wives. Also food shopping and games shopping is okay, equally i believe the correct thing to do is to accompany your girl shopping, if she would like you to be with her.

Also if you think like that then just think of the proportion of males to females
I go shopping with my best friend and love it, (i'm male shes obiously female as i sai she) i dont fancy her at all, does that mean i'm gay???

But anyway ur plan sounds great if a girl wants to buy tickets i would refuse but it would be amazingly rare thing but i would be really happy
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LOL i agree completely... well not completely i think its okay to go shopping if you are attracted to the girl, and are using it as an excuse for her to get to know you... in which case its an excuse for both of you to spend the day together as 'friends' and probably do little shopping anyway. Otherwise every guy has to go shopping once in a while, to get a presents for your girfriends/wives. Also food shopping and games shopping is okay, equally i believe the correct thing to do is to accompany your girl shopping, if she would like you to be with her.

Also if you think like that then just think of the proportion of males to females
good point - i have been guilty on more than one occasion of taking a girl to do something she wants e.g. shopping etc. so i can get in her good books. Shopping for clothes is a bit too far though - i agree with ur suggestions re:food and games
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good point - i have been guilty on more than one occasion of taking a girl to do something she wants e.g. shopping etc. so i can get in her good books. Shopping for clothes is a bit too far though - i agree with ur suggestions re:food and games
I know this cries out gay, but i like shopping for clothes with her too, and she seems to like me commin cos she invites me
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if you really want to impress him go naked.
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