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why do girls fake an orgasm?
sometimes i find it hard to know if she is having a real orgasm or...she is just putting on an act to please me....and I have read something about that some women will never have an orgasm all their life !...is it true?
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Reminds me of a joke: Why do women fake orgasms?
Because they think we care.
MB
Because they think we care.
MB
I've always found it very hard to have an orgasm through intercourse and I think most of my mates are the same. It's just not as easy for girls to come as it is for guys. You have to 'press the right buttons' with a girl...the best thing is to find out what turns her on rather than just going for it yourself and asuming she is enjoying it too. There's nothing more annoying than a guy who does that!
What makes you think that she is faking it? Or that she would fake it?
It could be for any number of reasons why she might fake it:
She could be tired and what it to be over
She might not be getting enough stimulation to orgasm
She might want to make her partner feel he's an excellent lover
Faking it though, IMO, is counter-productive.
If your lover is crap and can't make you come, it's best to talk to him about it, rather than fake an orgasm. By faking it, you make him think that he's good in bed, when he really isn't.
She could be tired and what it to be over
She might not be getting enough stimulation to orgasm
She might want to make her partner feel he's an excellent lover
Faking it though, IMO, is counter-productive.
If your lover is crap and can't make you come, it's best to talk to him about it, rather than fake an orgasm. By faking it, you make him think that he's good in bed, when he really isn't.
lekha85
rather than just going for it yourself and asuming she is enjoying it too. There's nothing more annoying than a guy who does that!
I know what you mean. its very annoying
Sex doesn't always have to end in orgasm (even if we want it to). Perhaps it would be nice to just give your girlfriend foreplay to help her orgasm without her feeling she has to give you one (as far too often us guys finish when our poor girlfriends haven't, so it's nice to return the favour). Don't obsess about it, but ask your girlfriend what she likes and if she'd like you to do anything else. If you can talk about these things easily between the two of you, then generally you can do them better!
I don't like the idea of the woman faking, there is no need.
I'm not going to get all grumpy if I can't get her to orgasm before I do, and its best that I know so I can lend a helping hand once I'm done...
Its just not productive at all.
I'm not going to get all grumpy if I can't get her to orgasm before I do, and its best that I know so I can lend a helping hand once I'm done...
Its just not productive at all.
I kind of like the contrast 
I don't think I've ever faked it...don't see the point. I think in general it is more difficult for girls to orgasm through intercourse alone but definitely is possible. Lots of foreplay and raising the hips (with a pillow or whatever) really helps.
Surely women don't go without orgasms for their ENTIRE lives though, that's crazy!
Cxx
Surely women don't go without orgasms for their ENTIRE lives though, that's crazy!
Cxx
Or a change in position completely helps, I actually find it harder to work my magic when I'm on top in my current relationship, and this is just due to the phyiscal layout of our bodies, without going to detail.
Once we switch around however, I've been known to outlast her, and alternative methods of fun have had to be employed.
Once we switch around however, I've been known to outlast her, and alternative methods of fun have had to be employed.
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