uh... you broke it off because of people talking about you? why do you give a flying **** what other people say? maybe if you paid less attention to your 'friends' and more attention to your b/f and what you were getting out of the relationship you should have known what to do. so really, the relationship was not worth getting flak over, therefore its not worth getting back with him now as it will just break down a little while down the road. either that, or your too selfconcious and care what people say about you, in which case.. dont get back with him. there's your answer. dont do it.