I have a little pattern on my wrist that I designed myself. Yes, it does have a star but it’s not a generic star pattern that everyone has, and I like it because I spent the time to design it, even though it’s tiny. I only wanted a small one so that it’s subtle and I can cover it with a watch if I ever need/want to, so I’m quite happy with mine.
My mother, however, has a few terrible ones. She has my dad’s name in Chinese with a cartoon heart above it (at the bottom of her back) and a cartoon angel on her shoulder- to be honest it looks like a drugged up bird. To look at her you wouldn’t expect her to have any tattoos because she’s really conscious of her appearance, but then she can be wearing a nice dress and it automatically looks cheapened by the thing on her shoulder. I guess it can be hit or miss.