Do you believe cheating is always wrong?

mark-scheme

And if you have ever been cheated on, what did you do when you found out?

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Reply 1

HappySadHappy

not if they cheated on you 1st and it's revenge sex. It's allowed.

Reply 2

Hooj

Of course it is wrong, if you plan on cheating you may as well dump the person you are going out with as they will no doubt dump you anyways.

Reply 3

Hooj

HappySadHappy

not if they cheated on you 1st and it's revenge sex. It's allowed.

If you got cheated on what makes you think your partner actually gis a hoot if you have revenge sex, he or she already didn't care much in the first place, lmao!

Reply 4

Cirsium

Of course it's always wrong. It might be understandable or forgiveable, but it's never the right thing to do.

Reply 5

HappySadHappy

Hooj

If you got cheated on what makes you think your partner actually gis a hoot if you have revenge sex, he or she already didn't care much in the first place, lmao!

You're telling me you haven't heard of all these 'mistakes' people make. 'Oh I'm so sorry baby I was drunk...' or some other lame excuse. They're so heartbroken that they cheated on you. Believe me, if I was cheated on that would be THE end. But too many people stay together. And so Revenge sex is allowed in my book.....

Reply 6

illusionz

If they're hotter than your girlfriend it's completely acceptable.

Reply 7

bacforever3

mark-scheme

And if you have ever been cheated on, what did you do when you found out?

I guess I would never, under any circumstances, accept being cheated on...
:s-smilie:

Still, Ive never been cheated on but have come close to cheating on someone... and despise my potential weakness... :frown:

Reply 8

mark-scheme

illusionz

If they're hotter than your girlfriend it's completely acceptable.

I'd find it easier to forgive my boyfriend if the girl was "uglier", if she was hot I would just find it unbearable :-| is that weird?

He hasn't cheated on me, though.

Reply 9

TheSownRose

It's not as black and white as people make it out to be.

Reply 10

mark-scheme

TheSownRose

It's not as black and white as people make it out to be.

I agree, I mean, I'd like to say if my boyfriend cheated then that's it, we'd be finished... but I imagine it's probably a lot more difficult than that.

Reply 11

yelloworangered

mark-scheme

I'd find it easier to forgive my boyfriend if the girl was "uglier", if she was hot I would just find it unbearable :-| is that weird?

Haha yes this is so true! Which is probably why I have forgiven him so much

Reply 12

madders94

It's never, ever, ever right. It's possible to forgive and perhaps to forget, but the action itself is never right or justifiable.

Reply 13

lora491

My last boyfriend cheated on me with one of my best friends, I dumped him as soon as he told me. Then took him back a few weeks later than cheated on him with a mate of his. Very immature and messy, if my boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me now, it would just be the end, it would be a massive breach of trust. So yeh, cheating is always wrong and if you're in a place where question that you should end it.

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Reply 14

Yafula

mark-scheme

I'd find it easier to forgive my boyfriend if the girl was "uglier", if she was hot I would just find it unbearable :-| is that weird?

He hasn't cheated on me, though.

no its not weird. I'd feel the same

Reply 15

doubledot

Alcohol is a huge factor behind much of the cheating that goes on nowaday. I can understand how it may lower inhibitions, leading to cheating, but I'd still find it very, very hard to forgive. After all, will I then have to worry every single time my boyfriend goes out to drink?

As for most other circumstances, I probably wouldn't accept it. It demonstrates that clearly he's probably not satisfied or happy - even just the tiniest bit - and to have him cheat, rather than talk to me and solve whatever issue he has with our relationship... Well, that's just cowardice.

Oh and I won't do revenge sex. Why even bother attempting to have a mature relationship if neither of you acts like it?