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Not confident enough to tell someone

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What to do? I know someone and talk to him a lot. Id like to tell him that i really like him (omg how cliche heh) but im scared of rejection, since its happened before. Help?!

Reply 1

glance

17

"You're a really awesome guy."
"Aww, cheers dudette."
"Y'know, this is kind of hard to say, but I like you a lot."

Reply 2

mankyscot2

1

In my opinion, i would love to be asked out instead of me having to do all the work. If he has given you some signs that he likes you, eye contact, etc, then just do it.

You should say:
"Hi *insert name here*, I have been thinking about you a lot lately, and I was wondering if you would like to go out with me sometime to get to know each other better"

then he says:
"Yeah that sounds fantastic, if you give me your number then i'll give you a call"

if he is interested then he will call, if not then at least you tried, and gained experience from it, it'll make you feel ace inside.

I fancy this girl and i'm not quite sure how to go about asking her out.

I know she is interested in me and I have her number, and I don't really have an excuse for not asking her yet other than the fact that i'm a chicken and i'm scared if I say something wrong or out of place or appear too heavy then i'll blow it.

One thing is for certain, I am going to ask her out, I can do it one of a number of ways:

1 - Ask her in person (go into her work or to her house)
2 - Phone her
3 - Text her
4 - Get someone else to do it

Can I have advice please, I would really like to do the first one but I'm a scaredy cat and i'll go all red which just isn't cool in my opinion.

Reply 3

r0manticide17

OP

3

thanks. id like to get someone to go ask him what he thinks of me. but i speak to him so much that he might catch on

Reply 4

username9303

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mankyscot2

I fancy this girl and i'm not quite sure how to go about asking her out.

I know she is interested in me and I have her number, and I don't really have an excuse for not asking her yet other than the fact that i'm a chicken and i'm scared if I say something wrong or out of place or appear too heavy then i'll blow it.

One thing is for certain, I am going to ask her out, I can do it one of a number of ways:

1 - Ask her in person (go into her work or to her house)
2 - Phone her
3 - Text her
4 - Get someone else to do it

Can I have advice please, I would really like to do the first one but I'm a scaredy cat and i'll go all red which just isn't cool in my opinion.

defo number 3 for me, just strike up a good convo over text and ask if she would like to meet up for a drink. if she says yes then hurrah, if not then ah well at least you know where you stand without making a prat of yourself in person.

ollie :biggrin:

Reply 5

sugardaddy

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mankyscot2

One thing is for certain, I am going to ask her out, I can do it one of a number of ways:

1 - Ask her in person (go into her work or to her house)
2 - Phone her
3 - Text her
4 - Get someone else to do it

If you feel confident enough, then in person or over the phone. If you feel you can put it together better in a txt, then that. You know her, so don't get someone else to do it - your lack of confidence would come through this way.

Reply 6

mankyscot2

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Yeah I think that too, I think it shows my lack of confidence if I text her too. I would much rather do it in person but she works in a hairdressers and if I went to ask her there then everyone would be looking at me and she would probably get embarrassed, etc. Suppose I just need to find the right time, I see her almost every week, and I have given her lifts home from work, etc, so should I ask her one of these times, when we are alone?

Reply 7

lenaess1

Theres no need to tell him. Just wait until you know that you two are alone then -without saying anything- go down on your knees..unbutton his pants..and you know the rest of the story. It would certainly make a chage to getting a mate to ask him out for you. or doing it on msn

Reply 8

r0manticide17

OP

3

that wasnt what i was looking for

Reply 9

toipot2

1

ask someone out over text?

Wow, lets not get too personal shall we?

Hehehe

Reply 10

lou p lou

2

just ask him if he fancies going for a drink sometime... as for texting, don't even think about it! it's so unpersonal and he could think it's just one of your mates having a laugh...

lou xxx

Reply 11

username18215

10

One day you've got to walk out of that door and take a risk. You may not be ready, f*** it. You'll only know when you try.

And when you do, you'll be living, whatever he says.

Reply 12

sokas

8

mankyscot2

One thing is for certain, I am going to ask her out, I can do it one of a number of ways:

1 - Ask her in person (go into her work or to her house)
2 - Phone her
3 - Text her
4 - Get someone else to do it

option 3

Reply 13

username18215

10

If you're in yr 6, #4.

Reply 14

hanadeka2002

Do it when you're alone together.That way if the reaction is not what you were hoping there are no spectators.Say what 'glance' said....that way it doesn't sound like you are admitting your undying love and have been stalking said boy for months on end and also the guy will probably respect you for having the guts to say it if you tell him it was a difficult thing to say!

Reply 15

Amlea

1

md_red_uk

One day you've got to walk out of that door and take a risk. You may not be ready, f*** it. You'll only know when you try.

And when you do, you'll be living, whatever he says.

HEY i agree wiht that!

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