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needing some help here...............
hey guys, not like me to need help but im so in despair at the mo!
Ive liked this girl at my work for ages, and a month ago i actually had the balls to message her on faceparty. she's my friends sister and shes so lovely. we spoke and then met up at work and she had a bf at the tym (a long term one).
anyway over the last 4 weeks we'd been meeting up (she wasnt cheating on him) and she would let him know about me, but he seemed to be fine about it. she was worried however about her mum knowing cos she didnt want her sister knowing about me. we met up at break together when we work, she used to txt me after her bf left her house so i cud ring her, lots of other sweet things.
we've been to the cinema 3 tyms, pub etc etc and we just get on so well! Shes always happy when we go out and she's sed things that made me think she fancied me. well- i guess she did as she told me if she was single that she wud most probably be with me.
anyway they split this week. rather odd because she was going to dump him, but he dumped her. she was crying etc and i thought- well if she likes me then maybe things would be better between us. oh how i was wrong!
now yesterday she seemed off with me and i txt her saying why? she sed she only likes me as a mate. but she still fancies another guy at work and it annoys me. why has she stopped liking me but not him? Her friend and sister tell me to just give it time and then talk to her but its so annoying. her bf wasnt very attractive, he treated her badly and didnt care at the beginning and end of their relationship. i care about her so much and i know i wud never hurt her. i just dont know if she has genuinely stopped liking me or if shes just coping with losing her bf. i dont wanna pester her, but i know i mite regret not doin anything about it.
faa
Ive liked this girl at my work for ages, and a month ago i actually had the balls to message her on faceparty. she's my friends sister and shes so lovely. we spoke and then met up at work and she had a bf at the tym (a long term one).
anyway over the last 4 weeks we'd been meeting up (she wasnt cheating on him) and she would let him know about me, but he seemed to be fine about it. she was worried however about her mum knowing cos she didnt want her sister knowing about me. we met up at break together when we work, she used to txt me after her bf left her house so i cud ring her, lots of other sweet things.
we've been to the cinema 3 tyms, pub etc etc and we just get on so well! Shes always happy when we go out and she's sed things that made me think she fancied me. well- i guess she did as she told me if she was single that she wud most probably be with me.
anyway they split this week. rather odd because she was going to dump him, but he dumped her. she was crying etc and i thought- well if she likes me then maybe things would be better between us. oh how i was wrong!
now yesterday she seemed off with me and i txt her saying why? she sed she only likes me as a mate. but she still fancies another guy at work and it annoys me. why has she stopped liking me but not him? Her friend and sister tell me to just give it time and then talk to her but its so annoying. her bf wasnt very attractive, he treated her badly and didnt care at the beginning and end of their relationship. i care about her so much and i know i wud never hurt her. i just dont know if she has genuinely stopped liking me or if shes just coping with losing her bf. i dont wanna pester her, but i know i mite regret not doin anything about it.
faa
~Raven~
She might associate you with her ex, coz you used to see her at the same time as she was seeing him? that might upset her. Or maybe she just has gone off you, whihc is hard but it does happen. anyway, hope you sort it out 
well basically we went out to the cinema together on wednesday nite. everything was really gd. her mate picked us up, turns out her bf had been seeing some other girl that afternoon. they dropped me off. then later she told her bf she didnt want him in her life.
nxt day, i see her in morning, shes not sure whats happening. her bf finks hes dumped but aint done nefin bout it. he ggoes round her houise after school n dumps her. shes in tears really feeling bad and im just siting there angry cos i know im better than him and i care about her so much!!
then y'day she tells me in a txt that she only likes me as a mate when im pretty sure b4 she split up with him she fancied me. she even hid us meeting from her mum whom she NEVA lied to, and sister!!
she said that i would make a good bf, but not for her. so i was wondering does she fink im the type to cheat as wen we went cinema weds, i asked her if i cud kiss her???? we do get on so well 2getha!
Book-worm
As much as you don't probably wanna hear this, i think she might wanna get back with that lad!
that actually doesnt bother me. im more worried that she'll find sum1 better than him cos i reckon shes the type to get in a 2 yr relationship.
however, i dont fink she will as hes slagged her off so much!
im more worried that from weds evening to friday shes sumhow just stopped having feelings about me!
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