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I'm a bit of a player?!!?!

A girl whom I thought I was friends with (and nothing more, didn't want anything more at all) apparently thinks I'm "a bit of a player"

:eek:

What do you do in that sort of situation?!

Reply 1

legbreakgoogly

Just say:

You know how we do boo.

Reply 2

dave

bwgames

A girl whom I thought I was friends with (and nothing more, didn't want anything more at all) apparently thinks I'm "a bit of a player"

:eek:

What do you do in that sort of situation?!

Is it yourself that doesn't want a deeper relationship with this girl? Because if it is, and she fancies you, then you have your answer.

Reply 3

fleur-de-lis

bwgames

A girl whom I thought I was friends with (and nothing more, didn't want anything more at all) apparently thinks I'm "a bit of a player"

:eek:

What do you do in that sort of situation?!

What did you do to make her think that? Perhaps the actions you did, thinking that it was friendly gesture, mightn't have been so?

Reply 4

Irrational Pi

bodhisattva

Is it yourself that doesn't want a deeper relationship with this girl? Because if it is, and she fancies you, then you have your answer.

I didn't want anything deeper, beside she has a b/f already.

What did you do to make her think that? Perhaps the actions you did, thinking that it was friendly gesture, mightn't have been so?

Meh, I have tended to be pretty plastered, I tend to be very talkative, and do tend to go off on a tangent, I can't think of anything specifically :confused:

Reply 5

dave

bwgames

Meh, I have tended to be pretty plastered, I tend to be very talkative, and do tend to go off on a tangent, I can't think of anything specifically :confused:

Perhaps therein lies your answer. You + booze + talking to multiple girls (platonically)=she adds 2+2 and gets 5.

Can't blame her

bwgames

A girl whom I thought I was friends with (and nothing more, didn't want anything more at all) apparently thinks I'm "a bit of a player"

:eek:

What do you do in that sort of situation?!

Kick all the hunnies out of your hot tub... :smile:

Reply 8

yo-less

bodhisattva

Perhaps therein lies your answer. You + booze + talking to multiple girls (platonically)=she adds 2+2 and gets 5.

*sniggers* :rolleyes:

Reply 9

Irrational Pi

fleur-de-lis

Can't blame her

What's that supposed to mean? :frown:

Reply 10

fleur-de-lis

bwgames

What's that supposed to mean? :frown:

I meant that it is quite likely that if you tend to go off tangent while being plastered, she might think that you are flirting with her. And there is always a thin line between friendly flirting and suggestive flirting, which might vary from person to person.... so she probably ended up thinking that you fancy her.
Since she has a bf, I would say that you can start dropping hints to her that you see her platonically...