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    Okay, its been 1 month since we started dating, I think I am expecting too much, but whenever I am sad, she'll ask me if I am fine, I'll say yea I am fine, she will be like prove it, if I say something sweet she'll think I am fine (even though I am not).

    Whereas whenever she is sad, I'll do everything possible to reverse her mood.

    What do I do? Should I wait for some more time and see if she can sense me being sad or happy etc

    Or should I say this thing to her directly?

    We love each other a lot , can't think of being apart . But all I want is someone who understands me better.
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    then dont say you're fine when you're not! Grow up ffs
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Okay, its been 1 month since we started dating, I think I am expecting too much, but whenever I am sad, she'll ask me if I am fine, I'll say yea I am fine, she will be like prove it, if I say something sweet she'll think I am fine (even though I am not).

    Whereas whenever she is sad, I'll do everything possible to reverse her mood.

    What do I do? Should I wait for some more time and see if she can sense me being sad or happy etc

    Or should I say this thing to her directly?

    We love each other a lot , can't think of being apart . But all I want is someone who understands me better.
    Okay, after reading the post again, I realised I have exaggerated it a weeny bit

    She'll try very hard to make me happy, but it doesn't work, ultimately, I'll have to cheer myself up. She can't help me maybe I am unable to communicate what's in my mind perfectly
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    Wtf

    No-one's a bloody mind-reader, and even when she senses you're upset and ASKS, you LIE to her. What do you expect her to do apart from accept what you say?
    Communication, and no BULL **** is key in a MATURE relationship.
    If you think you will EVER fully know/understand someone and vice versa, you are sadly mistaken.
    Stop being so naive. Jeez.
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    (Original post by *Star*Guitar*)
    Wtf

    No-one's a bloody mind-reader, and even when she senses you're upset and ASKS, you LIE to her. What do you expect her to do apart from accept what you say?
    Communication, and no BULL **** is key in a MATURE relationship.
    If you think you will EVER fully know/understand someone and vice versa, you are sadly mistaken.
    Stop being so naive. Jeez.
    Okay okay thanks for replying no need to get angry over this, I get your point, I'll tell her the truth from now on !

    Actually I am calling her right away :P!

    Thanks again I needed some help :P
 
 
 
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