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    Basically he said "you're not very good at sex are you" and when I got upset, he saidhe meant I was bad because I haven't orgasmed from having sex yet (how does that mean I'm bad? Some girls don't get off from sex right?)

    Then LATER, he said that it was boring. I got upset again and he says we only do "boring positions". We've only been having sex for a month, and I was a virgin until then, I'm still getting used to it.....

    I feel really un-confident now and refused to have sex with him later on when he tried, then he said I was "taking it too seriously and being too sensitive", and that it was "only a joke."

    Meh Am I being too sensitive? What would you do???
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    Dump him?

    EDIT: He sounds like a total nobjockey
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    Even though its the standard TSR H&R response I am deadly serious when I say get rid of him.
    What a ******. Don't expect his attitude to change. You can do much better.
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    (Original post by ForensicShoe)
    Dump him?

    EDIT: He sounds like a total nobjockey
    this.

    Does your boyfriend know how sex works?

    He sounds like a complete ****.
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    Get rid.
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    Dump.
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    I agree with everyone else's comments! What a ****!
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    Surely you not orgasming means he's the one who's bad at sex? Maybe you should tell him that. Or tell him where to go. Preferably both.
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    It seems like he's the one who's not so good at sex.

    Any sexually mature bloke knows the majority of women wont orgasm through penetrative sex and even if they do, it takes a lot ******* longer than a month after losing their virginity! Tell him to stop watching so much porn, maybe read up a little on the basic female anatomy and then maybe he can boink you again.

    What a tosser.
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    Do people actually put up with being treated like this? I can't understand it.
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    F*ck him....excuse the pun lol. But really, sod him if he's going to be like that. He's just sulking because you didn't *** and thinks that reflects badly on him. Hence he attempts to make himself feel better by placing the blame on you.
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    (Original post by *Star*Guitar*)
    Even though its the standard TSR H&R response I am deadly serious when I say get rid of him.
    What a ******. Don't expect his attitude to change. You can do much better.
    This. If ANY half wit of a man said this to me, I would have dumped his arse faster than he can blink!!
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    You could either tell him practice makes perfect or that you're just going to have to find somebody else to practice with. Whatadouche.
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    At least he's being open with you, would you prefer he just lied and pretended your seemingly boring sex was great? Na. This way you can experiment etc so that you both can enjoy it. You took what he said completely negatively, man up as it were and take some suggestions on board.
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    He is an idiot. OP if you've only been having sex for a month, wtf does he expect? You to suddenly become a porn star overnight, jeez. Dump him, or in the very least tell him what a **** he is.
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    just say:
    "maybe i haven't orgasmed because you are **** as sex. also, you have a tiny ****."
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    lol
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    Ouch.
    No, you aren't being too sensitive. He is a mean jock!

    Dump him!
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    Tell him he's **** in bed.

    What a ****.
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    (Original post by Wesssty)
    At least he's being open with you, would you prefer he just lied and pretended your seemingly boring sex was great? Na. This way you can experiment etc so that you both can enjoy it. You took what he said completely negatively, man up as it were and take some suggestions on board.
    yeah, but he completely failed at being understanding or constructive in any way
    ergo he is a douche and needs to be dumped
 
 
 
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