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Boyfriend said sex was boring and I wasn't good at it watch

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    he sounds like a right tosser
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    (Original post by Wesssty)
    At least he's being open with you, would you prefer he just lied and pretended your seemingly boring sex was great? Na. This way you can experiment etc so that you both can enjoy it. You took what he said completely negatively, man up as it were and take some suggestions on board.
    Wheyhey! some sense in here. Stop being so sensitive and experiment.
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    What a loser, how many girls has he slept with, by that sounds of it hardly any if he dont know the basics of girls and sex! Get rid!
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    I only said that to motivate you! I mean ffs you barely move.
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    probibly because u just laid there and did nothing lazzy bi**h
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    he seems like an idiot tbh the way he said it to you " your not very good at it are you" like it was ok he sounds like to me you cant get an org becuase he is bad.
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    TSR has spoken
    get rid of him
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    Dump him, it's the best for both of you. You don't have to get upset anymore, and he can go and find a woman who can satisfy his sexual desires more adequately. Someone less boring, for instance.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically he said "you're not very good at sex are you" and when I got upset, he saidhe meant I was bad because I haven't orgasmed from having sex yet (how does that mean I'm bad? Some girls don't get off from sex right?)

    Then LATER, he said that it was boring. I got upset again and he says we only do "boring positions". We've only been having sex for a month, and I was a virgin until then, I'm still getting used to it.....

    I feel really un-confident now and refused to have sex with him later on when he tried, then he said I was "taking it too seriously and being too sensitive", and that it was "only a joke."

    Meh Am I being too sensitive? What would you do???
    Well harsh.
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    :confused: What a tosser. Any girl would get upset about a guy saying that to them! Don't think you're too sensitive because seriously you're not, that's just damn right out of order and you can do so much better. He is obviously **** at sex isn't he if you haven't orgasmed yet, that isn't your problem that's his... you should maybe tell him that sometime. What a knob though you should highly think about getting rid of him he sounds like a right ****, fancy saying that to your girlfriend
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    How many threads are you planning to make about this?
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    Your BF sounds like a total douche. He presumably knows you;re inexperienced, but he's criticising you because after having sex for less than a month he thinks the positions you use are boring, and he hasn't been skilled enough in bed to give you an orgasm. Sounds like he's the one with the problem.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically he said "you're not very good at sex are you" and when I got upset, he saidhe meant I was bad because I haven't orgasmed from having sex yet (how does that mean I'm bad? Some girls don't get off from sex right?)

    Then LATER, he said that it was boring. I got upset again and he says we only do "boring positions". We've only been having sex for a month, and I was a virgin until then, I'm still getting used to it.....

    I feel really un-confident now and refused to have sex with him later on when he tried, then he said I was "taking it too seriously and being too sensitive", and that it was "only a joke."

    Meh Am I being too sensitive? What would you do???
    You're being massively over sensitive. You are obviously rubbish at sex, but obviously you are new to it so it isn't your fault. Why don't you just try different positions, or surprise him by getting on top or something.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically he said "you're not very good at sex are you" and when I got upset, he saidhe meant I was bad because I haven't orgasmed from having sex yet (how does that mean I'm bad? Some girls don't get off from sex right?)

    Then LATER, he said that it was boring. I got upset again and he says we only do "boring positions". We've only been having sex for a month, and I was a virgin until then, I'm still getting used to it.....

    I feel really un-confident now and refused to have sex with him later on when he tried, then he said I was "taking it too seriously and being too sensitive", and that it was "only a joke."

    Meh Am I being too sensitive? What would you do???
    Ditch him. He's using you!
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    (Original post by Wesssty)
    At least he's being open with you, would you prefer he just lied and pretended your seemingly boring sex was great? Na. This way you can experiment etc so that you both can enjoy it. You took what he said completely negatively, man up as it were and take some suggestions on board.
    Are you the boyfriend by any possible chance? :cool:
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    Dent his confidence in bed / embarrass him.

    Then dump him.
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    I recommend joining the sex industry. You will get a lot of practice, and if you have a job/studies to attend then make it part-time. Cash in hand too.
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    (Original post by marie1304)
    he is seriously messing with your self esteem, and ffs sex isnt all about him
    he says all these mean things to you and then gets nice when he's a bit horny...that's pricky...you're not his sex toy, and the problem is probably him anyway !
    Gone about in the wrong manner but he's being honest and he's probably right. But most girls are bad/boring at that age so he might aswell deal with it.
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    Tell him you don't orgasm because you can never tell if he's inside you or not let alone get any satisfaction out of his little guy

    Then dump that ****. (No pun intended)
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    Sounds like he's not mature enough to be having sex to be honest, with a response like that!!
 
 
 
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