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I liked a girl for 7 years and never said a single word to her... anybody else too? watch

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    If so, what were your reasons? Mine were:

    * Never felt good enough

    * Never had the confidence

    * We were great friends - didn't want to ruin

    * Rejection embarassment

    * Same school

    * Different religion

    * Didn't ever think i'd be able to keep her happy

    * Don't think she wanted a bf / was interested in guys


    This song sums up every time I thought about her...



    :sigh: :sigh: :sigh:

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    P.S. I'm happy in a new relationship now finally, all is well!

    Just curious to see if other people had ever been in a similar situation and whether or not they told the person in the end.

    I never did... and I never will.

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    couldn't keep it to myself even if i wanted to because i have a big gob and am incapable of even partially concealing my emotions :yeah:
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    What the **** did I just listen to

    That song is so bad it makes me upset that some people actualy enjoy listening to it
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    Yeah, i can think of about 3-7 girls at least who i liked (and still do like) for about 7ish years and never did anything about it or said anything to them, some of them im on talking terms with, others probably didnt know i existed(i think)
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    An Imran Khan song represents how you feel? :facepalm2:
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    Nah, mate. Chances are I've never spoken to her either.
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    Nah not me.

    But then again I DID know a guy who liked a girl through out secondary school and never said a word.

    Still he was a mute and spoke through sign language so I dunno if that counts.
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    All the time.

    Reasons:
    - not good enough
    - crap self esteem
    - I have a crystal ball that shows me every guy will leave me for someone better/prettier/cooler
    - I do get the typical "tongue tied" feeling
    - I know that they're still hung over their ex or have their eyes on someone else
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    Yep, i've definitely done that before:sad:
    Not much cause i'm scared, but i'm shy and i want her to make the first move.
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    (Original post by jenny.chu)
    All the time.

    Reasons:
    - not good enough
    - crap self esteem
    - I have a crystal ball that shows me every guy will leave me for someone better/prettier/cooler
    - I do get the typical "tongue tied" feeling
    - I know that they're still hung over their ex or have their eyes on someone else
    THIS.
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    What's up with this forum and Imran Khan.
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    Poor things.
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    yes hpnd to me but for 4 years.. my reason is that i used to have a walking impediment so i was sure that she would never like me... i was right when she found out from someone else she tried her hardest to stay away from me. its quite sad i actually had so much love to give too
    ever since i had an operation and am now normal she doesnt mind walking past me in corridors!!
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    (Original post by Tzarchasm)
    What's up with this forum and Imran Khan.
    It's the same person making the threads.
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    Why not? It's only been 7 years! :teehee:

    Go for it.
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    Lmao Imran Khan
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    (Original post by i_<3_you)
    If so, what were your reasons? Mine were:

    * Never felt good enough

    * Never had the confidence

    * We were great friends - didn't want to ruin

    * Rejection embarassment

    * Same school

    * Different religion

    * Didn't ever think i'd be able to keep her happy

    * Don't think she wanted a bf / was interested in guys


    This song sums up every time I thought about her...



    :sigh: :sigh: :sigh:

    Spoiler:
    Show
    P.S. I'm happy in a new relationship now finally, all is well!

    Just curious to see if other people had ever been in a similar situation and whether or not they told the person in the end.

    I never did... and I never will.

    :tumble:

    I can so relate to this!
    I managed to get a girl I like on her own..but just couldn't tell her I liked her cos I was scared she would throw it in my face. Dam 2 years has gone and I still regret not saying anything. And worst thing is I think I have made this mistake again with another girl at university!!! I think what has stopped me is the rejection thing, in the past girls have been super cold sometimes in the way they react..therefore I get scared to put myself out there. This year my goal is to not let this happen again.
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    Don't waste your time. I did this and the person died. I even posted stupid threads on here asking if people thought said person had feelings for me. It is an awful, awful regret to have.
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    [QUOTE=i_<3_you]
    * We were great friends - didn't want to ruin[/QUOTE

    Lol... how can you have been good friends without speaking a word?
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    [QUOTE=i_<3_you]
    * We were great friends - didn't want to ruin[/QUOTE

    Lol... how can you have been good friends without speaking a word?
 
 
 
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