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Question for guys with girlfriends: Do you fancy other girls? watch
- 25-09-2010 16:53
(Original post by masterglen3)
- 25-09-2010 16:56
I think a lot do, not all, but some, we all have the tendancy to think the grass is greener, even if what we have at home is great. There will always be times in a relationship, where things get tiring at times, nothing can be amazing all the time. I think thats where the maturity of a relationship comes in, understanding that some girl is attractive and fun, but realising what you have is really great, and really special, and the grass isn't greener, and what you have already is far more fulfilling overall, and stopping things advancing emotionally and physically with other girls before it gets a little out of control.
(Original post by Anonymous)
- 25-09-2010 21:58
Guys, when you have a girlfriend, even if it's a happy relationship, do you still fancy other girls? If yes, do you fancy them as much as you would if you were single? For example if you worked with a pretty girl who you got on with, would you still be attracted to her, or would the fact that you have a girlfriend mean that you don't fancy other people?
- Thread Starter
- 26-09-2010 01:17
Most of you have misunderstood the question. I wasn't asking if you find other girls pretty, as it's obvious you do. I was asking if you actually fancy other girls, if you 'have feelings' for them,and imagine what it would be like to go out with them etc.
- 26-09-2010 01:35
I'd be the first to bark about how it's normal/ OK to window shop when you're in a relationship, but actually, when I've had a boyfriend I've never so much as looked at another man with lustful eyes. I just never have - perhaps because I've been hopelessly in love with my boyfriends at the time, but when i love somebody other men are just.. Meh. They're just faces. I couldn't imagine let alone entertain sleeping with someone else, I honestly don't understand people who do. Maybe I'm just old fashioned?
- 26-09-2010 01:45
I am such a hypocrite - I look at guys all the time, but if my boyf looks like at a girl im like *shifty eyes* "Hey" *prod* "Eyes on me nob face"
I know its only natural though, and I don't really get that bothered about it. What can you do?
- Thread Starter
- 26-09-2010 22:24
Anyone else? Do you have feelings for other girls while you have a girlfriend?