Apologies in advance as the comma key on my keyboard has become defunct so have taken to using the dash key as a sort of poor substitute
I need some advice on whether i should live with my boyfriend next year. The situation is this: I am currently in my first year at Huddersfield University - i've been here a week and feel homesick and think i've made a bit of a daft choice but have decided to just put up with it as I know at some point it has to get fun (hopefully). I've been seeing my boyfriend for more than 2 years and we're very happy together - we make plans for the future and such and are in love and the rest of it. He's studying at Manchester Met doing a foundation degree but plans to move to Yorkshire to start uni at either Huddersfield or Leeds next year. I want to know whether it's sensible to move in together next year even though I know i've not had chance to make proper friends in my flat or on my course yet. The main problem is that I had a gap year after college and took a full time job (did all my drinking/going out and "clubbing" and being an idiot) and so subsequently I feel slightly more adult/mature than the rest of my flatmates and so I can't see myself bonding with them (although we get along really well I couldn't handle living with them for 2 more years because i think there'd be a personality clash) because their activities include getting hammered and going dancing in clubs in town. Should I wait until my third year to see whether I want to live with him or wait it out and either live alone next year or (hopefully!) find someone to live with from my course?