Apologies in advance as the comma key on my keyboard has become defunct so have taken to using the dash key as a sort of poor substitute
I need some advice on whether i should live with my boyfriend next year. The situation is this: I am currently in my first year at Huddersfield University - i've been here a week and feel homesick and think i've made a bit of a daft choice but have decided to just put up with it as I know at some point it has to get fun (hopefully). I've been seeing my boyfriend for more than 2 years and we're very happy together - we make plans for the future and such and are in love and the rest of it. He's studying at Manchester Met doing a foundation degree but plans to move to Yorkshire to start uni at either Huddersfield or Leeds next year. I want to know whether it's sensible to move in together next year even though I know i've not had chance to make proper friends in my flat or on my course yet. The main problem is that I had a gap year after college and took a full time job (did all my drinking/going out and "clubbing" and being an idiot) and so subsequently I feel slightly more adult/mature than the rest of my flatmates and so I can't see myself bonding with them (although we get along really well I couldn't handle living with them for 2 more years because i think there'd be a personality clash) because their activities include getting hammered and going dancing in clubs in town. Should I wait until my third year to see whether I want to live with him or wait it out and either live alone next year or (hopefully!) find someone to live with from my course?
Tons of places at all these high-ranking unis