don't want to wear scarf anymore

They are different ways of wearing a scarf, so try different ways, but DONT take it off, it will be stupid to do so.

well no, I originally said that I thought the OP was referring to the hijab but it's my mistake if it wasn't the same. So I wasn't agreeing with you, just not really confident with my position, but when I saw you edit your post I knew you were BSing

But still, surely you agree that it is wrong to actually force a woman to wear a hijab if they don't want to

How so? Surely in this context the OP is referring to the hijab?

Your father sounds like a bastard, to be honest. Don't let anyone dictate how you do and do not live your life, you are an adult now and free to do as you please.

Y'all wear them in the shower too?

Hi, im a Muslim too! In Islam its compulsory to wear a scarf! They are different ways of wearing a scarf, so try different ways, but DONT take it off, it will be stupid to do so. I assume Sidra, you cant. Its forbiden in Islam, this life is a test and for Allah you cant even do that. Im 12 and I wear a scarf everywhere.

Too right I was



OBVIOUSLY!!!

no, i'm referring to headscarf. i don't wear hijab

MashAllah sisters for keeping the faith in this contemporary, western and largely anti-islamic world... I praise you both and hope that you are able to continue without any form of opresssion and are able to keep on wearing that scarf with pride and joy in your hearts.
Ameen

She shouldn't HAVE to wear it differently, if she doesn't want to, she doesn't want to. And for those saying she has to because it's Islamic... no.. if you want to be a good Muslim follow what you interpret as the rules BECAUSE YOU WANT TO FOR GOD. Where's the religious piety in only doing it because you're forced?? Hijab isn't the 6th pillar, you can be a good muslim without hijab and if you want to take it off you should. It's seen as a social faux pas but I know tons of girls who took it off, even in Arab countries. People were surprised at first but they soon got used to it.

excuse my, how dare you to call my dad a 'bastard' . no matter how he is like, he is my father and i respect him a lot

Glad we agree then


ok, now i'm confused.

what are you confused about? i only wear head scarf and don't wear hijab. hijab and headscarf are different from each other. you wear scarf to cover your head and wear hijab to cover your whole body. i only wear headscarf which only covers my head however i do wear western clothes as longer as they are not too tie :rolley
if you are still confuse, i would recommend you to do some research or please do not hesitate to ask question

i don't want to wear headscarf anymore. i put on scarf first because i had a few white hair and didn't want anyone to find out that i have white hair. after 3 years, i take off my scarf because i didn't want to wear it anymore and thought i wore it myself first and can take off easily. i took it off when i went to sixth form college and my dad got very angry at me so i put it back on . he didn't shout at me but his facial expressions were conveying the message of his angriness. once, i went to bank with my dad to open my account and my hair was open. my dad said "you look very ugly without scarf" which just nearly killed me. i couldn't stop myself crying and cried a lot because it was the first time he said something like that to me. when i shared with my mom, she also shouted at me back and said 'i am muslim girl and should wear it'. non of dad's sister' daughters wear scarf and they are much older than me as i am only 17 and they are 29,25, 21.
in addition, my mom and dad really used to respect me but after the issue of scarf, i don't talk to my dad as i used to before and neither he do
i don't know what shall i do? i will be going to university next year and afraid if i try to take it off again, i don't know what my dad would do to me.
please give me advice on what should i do. whatever i'm doing is right or wong
any advice would be very appreciated

what are you confused about? i only wear head scarf and don't wear hijab. hijab and headscarf are different from each other. you wear scarf to cover your head and wear hijab to cover your whole body. i only wear headscarf which only covers my head however i do wear western clothes as longer as they are not too tie :rolley
if you are still confuse, i would recommend you to do some research or please do not hesitate to ask question

this post is nice to see after the multitude of 'i hate my father, i want him to die' threads on here.

Hi, im a Muslim too! In Islam its compulsory to wear a scarf! They are different ways of wearing a scarf, so try different ways, but DONT take it off, it will be stupid to do so. I assume Sidra, you cant. Its forbiden in Islam, this life is a test and for Allah you cant even do that. Im 12 and I wear a scarf everywhere.