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    Sorry this is massively long..

    On Sunday I should be off to Oxford to start 4 years of studying chemistry, but hate the subject and never wanted to go. Parents pressured me to apply, saying I'd be nothing if I didn't...6th form teachers were the same. So I applied and faked my way through all the interviews to get them off my back and make them proud.

    My boyfriend is very controlling anyway (not allowed to wear skirts or have facebook or talk to guys) but I do love him. The plan was to get a job, save up, and get a place together before I'd have to go to uni.

    I worked my metaphorical balls off getting pretty much the perfect job...then my parents found all the rental paperwork and they lost my job by taking bits off my bicycle so I couldn't physically get there, and even after explaining the situation, I was "unreliable" and fired.

    Have attempted suicide because of all this, but never actually get any help because I always want to get out of hospital as speedy as possible so pretend to be fine.

    Time is running out though...3 more days I just wanted to work, but will be kicked out of the house with nowhere to go if I don't go to uni. Does anyone have any advice? x
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    Tell them the truth. Do what is best for you i think you should maybe move in with an aunt or grandparent take a year off and reapply for aomething that you know you want to do. Oh and tell your BF that you want facebook for your friends and you want to wear skirts to impress him Tell him you feel ugly or something
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    Go to Oxford. Even if you hate it, it will be worth it in the long run. Go to uni then do whatever the hell you want afterwards
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    Thanks I don't have any relatives to move in with in this country though...and yep tried that but he says they don't impress him and he should be the only friend I need

    And goodmen 4 years is quite a long time, and closing off doors to alternative careers..
 
 
 
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