So I had this friend, with a girlfriend. We always got quite well along. Not best friends, not even close, but everytime we saw each other we would have a lot of fun.
His girlfriend is everywhere. In his nicknames on several sites, in his profile pic on facebook, he wrote her name on several pages of his school books, he always has a pic of her with him, he sleeps with a pic of her under his pillow (that's what he told me at least), he mentions her in pretty much every facebook status, ...
Anyway, a couple of months ago he told me he really wanted to have sex with her, but she wasn't ready yet. They had been dating for about 4 months then. I told him to be patient, and he said he tried but didnt know if he could wait much longer.
After a few weeks he started sending me sexual texts. I didnt really know what to do, told him to stop since he had a girlfriend. He said he really loved her, but couldnt wait any longer. He wanted to be **** buddies, and said he wouldnt do anything wrong if we just had phone sex. I refused.
He kept asking me and kept sending me sexual text messages. He then even asked to meet up to have sex. Naturally, I refused every time.
Even when sending me those texts, he kept telling me how much he loves his girlfriend, but he was too horny to wait.
I kept refusing, and he stopped eventually.
I feel so bad for his girlfriend. Should I tell her? I dont know her at all. Ive only seen her once...
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Should I tell his girlfriend watch
- Thread Starter
- 29-09-2010 17:15
- 29-09-2010 20:19
Dunno. Personally, I wouldn't tell her.
- 29-09-2010 20:26
Why? why do you care? It's her s/it
- 29-09-2010 20:31
Here's a brilliant site for this kinda thing - you can tell her without anyone ever finding out it was you. http://www.hadtosay.com/
- 29-09-2010 20:31
I would want to know personally, so I say tell her.
It's basically attempted cheating, if not cheating itself by getting involved with another girl.
- 29-09-2010 20:33
Has he not been introduced to Mrs Palm and her five lovely daughters?
If he really loves her he will wait until she is completely ready regardless of how horny he is and it will be all the better when they do finally do it.
And in answer to your question no i wouldn't tell her, its not your place, if she needs to know that he has been attempting to play away, he should be the one to tell her. And tbh because of your resistance, he hasn't yet done anything wrong. If he goes elsewhere to someone who will not say no, then you can tell her something.