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Scared of relationship - need a bit of help watch

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    hello. I'm male and I started University two weeks ago. I've got with this guy who I was meeting up with on my course as I really liked him and it turns out he liked me as well. For some reason I'm keep having this panicky moments, especially in the morning, where I can't believe what's happened. I've never been in a relationship before and I'm usually pretty uncomfortable when people get close to me. I don't want to stop this relationship but I'm having this automatic reaction where I feel like running away, it's put me off food and has even killed my sex drive when I'm not around him. I have no idea why, it's very frustrating. If I think logically I know he is a good guy to be with but deep down I'm scared, anxious and am feeling very agitated and almost even tied. I'm scared I'm not going to get my University work done. Has anybody else experienced something like this? because if it is a common thing I wanna know how to get rid of it!

    Time will get rid of it!

    You're probably feeling this way because it's all so new - uni, this guy, your feelings... So perhaps try keeping a diary and writing it all down. Then you can read it and see that it is making you happy! Or do something else to relax you...?
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