Anon for obvious reasons
OK, hi, so I have recently been going out with a guy who’s a little bit older than me (he’s in his early thirties, I am 21) and recently found out that years ago, he used to live with his then-girlfriend who was seriously disabled (I do not know how though) and that a few times when they argued it got ‘violent’. I didn’t ask for any details, and I’m not going to ask again. He is, now, incredible sweet, normal, and you would never expect that of him. He’s since had therapy and things and sounds like he’s sorted out the anger issues he used to have. I know he’s had long term gfs since that he never got violent with.
Do TSR think I should be concerned? Just how bad is disabled-person hitting?
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xD - that's the only time that smiley has represented what I'm thinking.
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Disabled-person hitting.. Could be a new sport in the paralympic games
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She should of pulled a wheelie into his groin
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LOL at anonymous #2
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I'd say that was pretty bad :/ But then again, if he's changed then he probably deserves a chance.
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LOL at anonymous #2
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Did he hit her accidentally with like a Frisbee in the park as shown here?
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LOL at anonymous #2
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Anon for obvious reasons
OK, hi, so I have recently been going out with a guy who’s a little bit older than me (he’s in his early thirties, I am 21) and recently found out that years ago, he used to live with his then-girlfriend who was seriously disabled (I do not know how though) and that a few times when they argued it got ‘violent’. I didn’t ask for any details, and I’m not going to ask again. He is, now, incredible sweet, normal, and you would never expect that of him. He’s since had therapy and things and sounds like he’s sorted out the anger issues he used to have. I know he’s had long term gfs since that he never got violent with.
Do TSR think I should be concerned? Just how bad is disabled-person
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Either you're a troll or he is trolling you IRL.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
recently found out that years ago, he used to live with his then-girlfriend who was seriously disabled (I do not know how though) and that a few times when they argued it got ‘violent’.
Also, on a tangential note, I'm surprised there's not been more commentary on the fact that this guy is a decade older than you. -
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did he use a frisby?
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