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    My bf watches porn a lot. I don't. I am starting to feel self-conscious when we're having sex. Is he thinking of the girls in these videos? Is he imagining I am the girl he saw 'getting it' earlier? How am I to know?
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    Unless he spends more time watching porn and would rather do that than have sex with you, you dont have much to worry about.
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    Why do I watch porn? Isn't that obvious? It has naked women in it.
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    In order to study its merits as a contemporary art form.
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    Because sometimes I cba with the time and effort involved in imagination-masturbation.
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    i need it to masturbate too, can't do without it.:sad:
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    So I don't rape someone late in the. Keeps the hormones down ya know?
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    It's just how we are. You should be lucky he is getting his fills from pron and not other wimmin.
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    OP, I wouldn't worry too much - it's unlikely he's actually thinking of other people when you're making love. Many boys watch porn just for the visual stimulus - it's the easiest and most immediate turn on to see the actual act of sex for lots of people, girls included. It doesn't matter who the hell is doing it - he probably won't even register what they look like. Only that they're doing it, because that's what counts.

    Hope that helps a bit
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My bf watches porn a lot. I don't. I am starting to feel self-conscious when we're having sex. Is he thinking of the girls in these videos? Is he imagining I am the girl he saw 'getting it' earlier? How am I to know?
    Why does it matter? Why are women really picky and attention seeking? Its all relative, its just the way men are, we're more sexually charged, its not a problem, only is one if you make it one.
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    Men aren't 'more sexually charged' at all. That's just what the media depicts us to be. Society gives us this idea that women are perhaps a little shy in regard to sex, and that they don't want it as much as men. We're meant to be the ones who take control and impress the woman and all that jazz. Either way, women want it just as much as men.

    The OP is not being picky or attention seeking. Her self-consciousness is understandable, but I think it's really nothing to worry about.
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    Most women watch porn also.
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    The poor acting makes me laugh.
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    You should watch it. Just avoid the bad acting.
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    Sexist thread.
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    (Original post by JCC-MGS)
    Most women watch porn also.
    nahhh
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    I watch porn because I'm not getting any from a girl. I'm sure if I get a girlfriend/**** buddy/a lot of one night stands, my porn usage will considerably drop. Maybe I won't watch porn at all.

    But for now, I need to watch porn because I need to see women naked and having sex. If I don't, I think I'll eventually go insane.
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    Hello, here is the answer.

    "After years of watching late-night porn in anonymous hotel rooms - for research - its purpose is clear, says Clive James. To keep one's mind off sex while one's partner is absent. "
    http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/magazine/7982132.stm
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    (Original post by cec200)
    nahhh
    I'm deadly serious man, sometimes they even touch themselves and everything.
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    I'm a girl and I watch porn. It's not that bad (except the acting and the moaning/screaming). Trust me, the guy won't be imagining someone else. I don't understand how people can multitask like that anyway? Shag someone whilst imagining a completely different scenario. I'm a failure of a girl apparently with my lack of multitasking ability :p:
 
 
 
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