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Moving to university at weekend...having second thoughts watch

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    Anon or delete plz.

    Basically im going to uni this weekend but im really having second thoughts. I just dont feel ready at all, mentally that is.
    Today I said goodbye to everyone because I wont have any time tomorrow because of packing, this included my girlfriend of a few years, my grandparents and some friends. The amount of times I had to fight back tears was more then ever before; I feel bad because my girlfriend and grandparents were both getting really upset and it was horrible to feel like the cause of it. Im just scared of going and leaving everyone and its not like I can come back home every weekend because of the distance and money.

    At this minute I just really dont want to go, any advice from anyone?
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    It'll be okay once you get there, make friends & you can keep in contact many ways.
    Give it a couple of weeks!

    If not you can always drop out but everyone goes through this <3
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    It's just nerves, this is something you have to go through. You will adapt. Just give it some time once you're there.
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    I am terrified and im gonna be really nervous when I get there. I know tomorrow and Saturday are gonna be the hardest days but I dont think I can handle it.
    I know I cant stay at home and live with my parents forever but I dont know, I dont really know why im feeling like this; ive always wanted to go to this uni and I got in and I was ecstatic at the time...:dontknow:
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    You gotta move on and make your way in the world.
 
 
 
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