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Boyfriend prefers masturbating and porn to sex :| watch

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    Is this normal :confused:

    When we have sex, he lasts for a long long time (yes I know thats meant to be a good thing), but it's just too long! I start to go dry and after a while it gets uncomfortable and I just want him to finish.....but he can't Eventually we just stop and he just masturbates, and sometimes even watches porn while I'm just sitting on the bed bored Infact, he only actually cums about 1 in 10 times :eek:

    Is this normal I'm not really experienced with loads of guys so I don't know....but I didn't think it was THAT hard for guys to.....:confused:

    I asked him about it, and he told me that his hand feels better than having sex.....

    Is there something wrong with me :confused: Its making me feel inadequate, or is this normal for guys :confused:
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    The guy diabetic? There is a change he's ****** away his sensitivity as it sounds he's a rampant kleenex shagger. Then again, many variables so hard to say what's wrong.
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    i think there might be something wrong

    if i was girl I would feel well embrassed for you
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    I don't think it's your fault, and even if he thought it was then he probably should have said something by this point. The fact that he watched porn in order to 'finish' after you have sex is awful, and disrespectful in my opinion. Perhaps if this wasn't an option for him then he would find it easier to become satisfied with the sex he has with you. I don't think it's particularly normal that he does this, and you probably do need to talk with him. I certainly wouldn't be able to carry on a relationship like this. :dontknow: Either way, I certainly would not have any partner finish sex by watching some porn; that's not right in my opinion.
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    (Original post by Mazty)
    The guy diabetic? There is a change he's ****** away his sensitivity as it sounds he's a rampant kleenex shagger. Then again, many variables so hard to say what's wrong.
    What does being diabetic have to do with it :confused: he is actually.....
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    Do you research, act like a porn star if that doesn't work its time to move on
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    What does being diabetic have to do with it :confused: he is actually.....
    They are more likely to suffer from a lack of sensitivity and therefore enjoy whacking off to sex as they need much more pressure to bust their nuts. Not sure what it's called but if you google it' it'll have the answers you need.
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    (Original post by Mazty)
    They are more likely to suffer from a lack of sensitivity and therefore enjoy whacking off to sex as they need much more pressure to bust their nuts. Not sure what it's called but if you google it' it'll have the answers you need.
    Time to try a new hole?
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    (Original post by bmt)
    Time to try a new hole?
    Hahaha :p: Could work but considering these guys usually have to grip there piece like they're trying to crush an almond, even that may not work
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    If you can get him to cut back on the tissue time that would solve problems, maybe ask him to have 3-4 'dry' days and then go for the sex.

    Odds are it will be better for both of you.
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    Oh man brutal! Yea tell him to "save himself" for a few days. Might help a bit
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    It's 'cos you're crap innit

    Stop lying there like a beached whale, and be a bit more dynamic.....know what I mean :sexface:
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    He just needs to be more sensitive really, tell him to cut down on the ******* and it should be easier
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    I prefer it as well, unless the woman is exceptional, and it's virtually impossible to get anywhere with them!
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    Please dont fall into the trap of feeling inadequate about yourself as a result of actions that someone else decides to take (in this case, the actions of your bf in his choosing of how he conducts himself during sex with you) to be honest, his actions make him sound very self centred based on how i think everyone deserves to be with someone who takes the time to tune into their partner as a sexual being. This should be less about him coming and more about him wanting to enjoy you in the sense of being intimate together as a couple.

    I know it sounds harsh but I would get rid of someone if thier conduct relating to sex was making me feel that bad about myself because its something that someone who wants to feel good about themselves could do without.
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    Have you got a bucket for a vagina
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    Watch porn with him!
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    He bait jerks off too much.
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    (Original post by laurakate1988)
    Please dont fall into the trap of feeling inadequate about yourself as a result of actions that someone else decides to take (in this case, the actions of your bf in his choosing of how he conducts himself during sex with you) to be honest, his actions make him sound very self centred based on how i think everyone deserves to be without someone who takes the time to tune into their partner as a sexual being. This should be less about him coming and more about him wanting to enjoy you in the sense of being intimate together as a couple.

    I know it sounds harsh but I would get rid of someone if thier conduct relating to sex was making me feel that bad about myself because its something that someone who wants to feel good about themselves could do without.
    I agree with this completely.

    So many of these comments are totally inappropriate.
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    I know if my girlfriend bounced one out over a bit of porn after I'd boned her I certainly wouldn't be moaning about it on TSR. hope this helps.
 
 
 
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