There is a guy i have known for about 2 years but i hardly ever see him because we don't go to the same school or have the same friends or anything and so i only see him when i am doing d of e stuff. I am basically in love with him but i don't think he see's me that way at all as he is a health freak and i was the overweight slow one. He is a really nice, cute, clever guy but as long as i've known him i don't think that he has had a girlfriend. Does this mean i could have a chance? Sometimes i think he might like me but that might just be him being nice or my imagination. Once d of e is over i was thinking of just telling him how i felt, as i probably won't see him again; is this a good idea?
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- Thread Starter
- 01-10-2010 11:01
- 01-10-2010 12:25
I suppose it's better to say something than regret the fact you never did! Especially if you won't see him again.
If you don't think you can do that maybe you should casually ask for his number or msn address or something?
- 01-10-2010 12:30
I agree with magicalyoghurt. You don't want to regret it in the future that you have never asked him.
Ask for his msn casually and take things slowly. Then anfter talking to him etc you can find common interests etc and maybe do certain things together which would ensure you meet regularly and then take it further from there. Best of luck!
- 01-10-2010 12:37
Go for it. What do you have to lose by trying?
- 01-10-2010 12:40
If you don't say anything - nothing will happen.
If you say something - something might happen.
Go on, give it a try!
- 01-10-2010 12:41
OP asking him might be a bit too forwward in my opinion
I think you have to be realistic if you are truly overweight as you say you are and he is a health freak then no cigar
My advice to you is to befriend him which is what I have done with guys who like me but I havent made up my mind about
And meanwhile work on getting yourself from overweight to a healthy size. Do the whole movie makeover thing on him