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    I think something is wrong with me i can never cry i can't cry when i am upset angry or happy. and when i would usually cry i feel dead and get paranoid and feel really down with myself. I used to enjoy crying because it used to make me feel better and now i just cant cry anymore. I think its because i have cried myself out but this is impossible isnt it?
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    It's not possible you have cried yourself out.

    Find some alone time. Go to a quiet place and think yourself through. Think about the bad times and the good times.
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    I have the same too, I've been to a few family funerals and just don't seem to cry. It's weird, maybe I don't have a heart, ha.
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    Ah, I cry too much recently.

    As unborn-soul said, just get some alone time and have a think. Not crying doesn't mean you're not feeling.
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    If you're a guy I think a swift kick to the gonads would change that.
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    Its better to never cry than cry over little things like a guy saying i love you to a girl in a movie...i get really emotional over things like that. lol
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    listen to some sad music?
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    um, thats good?

    u realise crying is a bad thing rite? crying is for when ur sad. so this means ur not sad which means ur happy. dats a good thing.
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    Watch John Q or The Lovely Bones.
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    I can't remember crying.


    Given how awkward it is to be around people that are BAWWWWING (especially as it's usually over such trivial things) I take it as something of a blessing.
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    Oh well. I'm sure you'll cry someday.
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    Interesting. T'is sad actually. "have I cried myself out"? Wow. If that's possible... Hmm. Tentative thinking. :o:
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    (Original post by Roobsa)
    If you're a guy I think a swift kick to the gonads would change that.
    this... repped!
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    (Original post by unborn-soul)
    It's not possible you have cried yourself out.
    I beg to differ, I too suffer from the OP's problem. After a bout of depression a year ago, since of which I haven't been able to cry since. Not even the soppiest film can set me off, I just begin to water then it stops. I don't think it's a matter of 'crying yourself out', maybe just subconsciously protecting yourself.

    People may think it would be a blessing but it's a curse. The thought of being able to cry again would probably be a massive relief.

    Now I've just accepted it and will have to roll with it. It'll come again, probably.
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    Not even chopping onions?
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    i dont cry, but that's because i take tablets that won't let me feel anything bad.
    i'd say "i feel your pain" but i literally can't.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I think something is wrong with me i can never cry i can't cry when i am upset angry or happy. and when i would usually cry i feel dead and get paranoid and feel really down with myself. I used to enjoy crying because it used to make me feel better and now i just cant cry anymore. I think its because i have cried myself out but this is impossible isnt it?
    I can't cry either. Neither of us have a heart. Live with it, embrace it and use it to your advantage.
 
 
 
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