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    Theres someone im interested in, everything was going well until she asked me my age, and then when I replied it appeared that I am the same age as her lil’ brother (shes 2 years my senior) so because of this, shes now feeling weird about the prospect of us moving further in our relationship. I can understand why shes feeling weird, but I don’t really see why it should be the reason we don’t date anymore. Anyways, so I’m trying to show her that me being the same age as her brother shouldn’t be a reason to not go out..
    How can I portray this to her? How can I make her stop feeling weird?
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    Do not ever compare yourself to her brother.
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    How old are you? Maybe give it time and it will be a phase that she'll get over. In the meantime don't act like her brother.
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    It isn't THAT bad, if you are 18 and she is 20 then I don't see the problem.
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    Draw a beard on your face. Then you'll look older than her brother and she won't compare you.
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    How old are you? Maybe give it time and it will be a phase that she'll get over. In the meantime don't act like her brother.

    Might be a little hard cus' I dont know her brother :P

    Im 21 shes 23..I think her being older than me also doesnt help...
    but I dont get why girls make such a big deal about things like this.
    Its not like I have control over my age :/
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    Might be a little hard cus' I dont know her brother :P

    Im 21 shes 23..I think her being older than me also doesnt help...
    but I dont get why girls make such a big deal about things like this.
    Its not like I have control over my age :/
    Exactly, just give it time and hopefully she'll see past it :yy:
 
 
 
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