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    Hey I'm a 2nd year at university but I have no friends and I really do not know who I am, which I think is responsible for my lack of friends and lack of social life.

    When I say I don't know who I am, I do not mean in a sexually confused way, I mean that I actually do not know what my personality is. I really do not know who I am.

    I like DnB, Dubstep, and House music amongst others, so there's a start I guess. But I don't know what style of clothes suit me or how to act (I want to be loud but I really cannot and I find it difficult to 'let go') and I don't know what to do in social situations. I see people get on really well and they all have their own persona and are themselves but I cannot do this because I don't know what it is. I have tried different images etc but I am finding it difficult to find one that's 'me'. I have tried different personae (such as laid back, cool, etc) but can't really find one.

    Anyway how do I actually find who I am?
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    yo..its too late dude....this happens when you dont make friends at school...your finished

    anyway listen to my music..it will make you 'feel' again!! (y)
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    the trick is, wait. i know who i am now but is took many years
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    watch 'eat pray love' and eat lots of spaghetti.
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    Pour yourself into something, like playing music or writing a book, or painting, just something that you and only you create. For me it's playing the piano. I don't know who I am yet but I'm only 16, I don't think I'm supposed to know yet.
 
 
 
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