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    hello everyone.

    People at school were really horrible to me for years saying that I am ugly and girls hated me.

    Now im older I can get girls quite easily with my looks, but feel frustrated because I feel so ugly and therefore cant climax at all. I feel like everybody is watching and laughing at me, especially them.

    these days, I just hate sex altogether and find women who put clear advances for me to have sex sickening and patheticly desperate. I consider myself above such childishness. I realise this is a hallmark trait of a chronic narcissist, of which i am, to use my lack of 'manipulatibility' that women try so hard to use and instead reject their advances leaving them powerless and me powerful. The weird thing is they like this even more!

    But is this normal and is there anyway to enjoy it again??

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    You hate sex...you're a guy. Someone help him.
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    (Original post by niceguy21)
    hello everyone.

    People at school were really horrible to me for years saying that I am ugly and girls hated me.

    Now im older I can get girls quite easily with my looks, but feel frustrated because I feel so ugly and therefore cant climax at all. I feel like everybody is watching and laughing at me, especially them.

    these days, I just hate sex altogether and find women who put clear advances for me to have sex sickening and patheticly desperate. I consider myself above such childishness. I realise this is a hallmark trait of a chronic narcissist, of which i am, to use my lack of 'manipulatibility' that women try so hard to use and instead reject their advances leaving them powerless and me powerful. The weird thing is they like this even more!

    But is this normal and is there anyway to enjoy it again??

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    we should totally hook up.
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    (Original post by ipulledhermione)
    we should totally hook up.
    why should we>?
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    inb4******
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    (Original post by niceguy21)
    why should we>?
    Because maybe it might sort your f*cked up head out? lol
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    I'm not particularly fond of sex, just find a girl with a low sex drive
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    Maybe you're going after the wrong gender?
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    (Original post by niceguy21)
    hello everyone.

    People at school were really horrible to me for years saying that I am ugly and girls hated me.

    Now im older I can get girls quite easily with my looks, but feel frustrated because I feel so ugly and therefore cant climax at all. I feel like everybody is watching and laughing at me, especially them.

    these days, I just hate sex altogether and find women who put clear advances for me to have sex sickening and patheticly desperate. I consider myself above such childishness. I realise this is a hallmark trait of a chronic narcissist, of which i am, to use my lack of 'manipulatibility' that women try so hard to use and instead reject their advances leaving them powerless and me powerful. The weird thing is they like this even more!
    But is this normal and is there anyway to enjoy it again??

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    You use your "lack" of manipulation skills to manipulate women into thinking they are powerless?

    Yeah... makes perfect sense :rolleyes:
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    you've got real issues. not the sex stuff, like generally.

    you need to address those first
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    your no man
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    I think you just have a high sense of superiority which has in fact is been triggered in order to protect your low self-esteem.

    Not much I can suggest other than waiting for the right girl/guy to come along who you can actually enjoy sex with (it will happen eventually if you keep your mind open) and then see where things go from there.
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    You should probably consider being a priest.
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    (Original post by studyload)
    You should probably consider being a priest.
    lmao... Maybe little kids are more his thing
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    Sucks to be you. Man up
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    I think you need to sort out your low esteem that was caused by those guys. Once you sort that out, and become more confident, it may perhaps help.

    And guys - stop telling the OP off. He's only asking for advice. He doesn't need insults.
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    Nah mate, just give up and become a priest.
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    Find a girl who you love where sex well have more meaning, and this will be the best thing you experiance!
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    Sorry to say but you may have issues...
    go see your doctor or something
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    Watch gay porn and see if you enjoy it.
 
 
 
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