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    Yeah so really like this girl but i dont think she has the same feelings for me...she recently has stopped talking too me very often..and acts really shy around me. It wasnt like this couple of weeks back when we started college..she used to initiate a lot of convo's with me but now its me who has to make an effort...i think i must have said something to put her off:confused: She has a mate who's much more freindly with me..and i think she's quite fond of me as we exchange a lot of freindly banter and i catch her startin at me out of the corner of my eyes in classes....

    i dont want to act like a stalker/perv...should i just forget about her and go after her m8 instead? Im in such a dilemma..someone help me out please

    thanks
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    Yeah go after her Mate. This is like the exact situation a Boy is in with me atm and I just want him to leave me alone as I'm not interested, although still want to be his friend.
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    Yeah go after her Mate. This is like the exact situation a Boy is in with me atm and I just want him to leave me alone as I'm not interested, although still want to be his friend.
    she might be thinking the exact same of me?..
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    If you both like each other then go for it
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    Oh dear. So the girl you like is too shy to show it...And what do you do? Go straight for the best friend. Classy!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah so really like this girl but i dont think she has the same feelings for me...she recently has stopped talking too me very often..and acts really shy around me. It wasnt like this couple of weeks back when we started college..she used to initiate a lot of convo's with me but now its me who has to make an effort...i think i must have said something to put her off:confused: She has a mate who's much more freindly with me..and i think she's quite fond of me as we exchange a lot of freindly banter and i catch her startin at me out of the corner of my eyes in classes....

    i dont want to act like a stalker/perv...should i just forget about her and go after her m8 instead? Im in such a dilemma..someone help me out please

    thanks
    first of: if u're thinking about going for her mate then u dont like her that much. u just want pussy.

    secondly: it would be so selfish and stupid going for her mate because what if she does like u? none of them are going to go out with u or her mate will and then they'll stop talking (because of u, do u want to live with the guilt???)

    and u dont know, she might be acting shy because she wants u to do the chasing. im going to be honest, im exactly like that girl. i show interest then i move away because if the guy chases me then it shows that he's a good guy and it's not only interested in one thing.

    this is my input now do what u want.
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    Yeah go after her Mate. This is like the exact situation a Boy is in with me atm and I just want him to leave me alone as I'm not interested, although still want to be his friend.
    Are you an AS? What college do you go to?
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    Dont think this may be relavent..but i added her on fb last monday..she's been acting odd ever since
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    You must not like her that much if you'd just settle for her best mate.
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    aw I like this guy a lot, well, since March actually and after my drunken antics on Tuesday he's stopped talking/texting me. Can't even look at me when we bump into eachother at Uni. Sucks not being on speaking terms.

    I say, if you're keen on her mate then persue her however if she's just a rebound then don't use her, that's not cool at all.
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    ok, so you like a girl, and you don't know her feelings for you...so instead of dealing ith that - you're thinking about getting off with her mate?!?!?
    Guys can be such a mystery sometimes.
 
 
 
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