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    (Original post by danni_bella)
    I'm a little worried atm. I was good in the past sexually, and I managed to stay a virgin till the age of 21 yay go me. But now that I've reached my 27th year, reckon I might have to be more careful about my sexuality again! I'm already up to 6 men.

    5 of these were in relationships though...

    I'm a bit scared - starting to feel I should tone it down a bit and try celibacy for a couple months now that I'm single. What does TSR think about this?
    Why so insecure over sex? You have made loads of these threads.

    Just get over it and enjoy your life.
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    (Original post by danni_bella)
    Yeah you're right, it does sound a bit 'formal' the way I'm talking about it on here lol.

    I assure you I'm not like this IRL! It's one of those things I had to ask though, like I'd be laughed at by most of my friends if I admitted my concern over this... :o:
    Not what I meant :P
    What I meant was that you sound too much like you're letting society tell you how much sex to have, as if that weren't the most personal decision in the world.
    Sex with 6 guys in 6 years is nothing, really. And you had a more than good reason for most of them.

    Come back when it's at 6 guys a month and we might think you're a whore, which was obviously your concern. But as it is, you're fine in that regard.
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    Naww have as much sex as you like. I've had 7 girls in the last 2 years but I don't think that's too much.
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    It's just sex... I don't get why people are so hung up over it - sleeping with not many people isn't necessarily something to be proud of, just as sleeping with loads of people isn't.

    As long as you're not putting yourself, or anyone else in danger, then who cares if you've slept with 6, or 66 people?
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    Just because you dont like constantly putting it out doesnt make you somehow bad, just because 'it's 2010'.
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    (Original post by danni_bella)
    Hey, I'm proud of my low guy count thank you very much!

    I love your sig btw.
    Good stuff Dani. I'm just saying that you shouldn't care what society says.

    Thanks abut the sig. :p: not done yet though.
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    Good stuff Dani. I'm just saying that you shouldn't care what society says.

    Thanks abut the sig. :p: not done yet though.
    Yep, there are some people out there in society who I know I'll never please, no matter what I do so you're kinda right.

    I can't wait till you finish your work I'll defo have another read.
 
 
 
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