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1st kiss

Jitsu

lol, how'd u know wt to do? n if the guys been with other gals? :confused:

Reply 1

jordanv

1

ummm

I had no idea and just did whatever felt right..we kinda just clicked as soon as it started

it was so sweet though

I didn't ask him if he had been with other girls but i guess probably not (he was gay obviously)

Reply 2

meepmeep

Well, you could always practise on the back of your hand doing different things and seeing what feels nice. Truth be told, we all kiss differently and it can take time to learn what you like and what you don't, like all things. If you don't like certain things (like the common mistake of a guy immediately shoving his tongue all the way in your mouth or something :rolleyes:

), then you can be tactful but tell him like "that was nice but could you try a little less/more...etc". Practise makes perfect, so perservere!

Reply 3

Jitsu

OP

aww man, im like thinkin wtf do i do lol, haha

Reply 4

Helenia

20

It's kinda obvious when you get to it, really. Just don't be too overenthusiastic.

Reply 5

roff

2

jordanv

ummm

I had no idea and just did whatever felt right..we kinda just clicked as soon as it started

it was so sweet though

I didn't ask him if he had been with other girls but i guess probably not (he was gay obviously)

how was he "gay obviously"? :confused:

Reply 6

timtom

Whatever you do, don't clash teeth, it's horrible when that happens! Start off with some normal kissing on the lips etc..then when you feel comfortable just kinda slip your tongue into his mouth. It might feel a bit weird at first, but soon you get used to it and it's great. Don't worry about it, things like this usually just come naturally :smile:

Reply 7

Lauren Hart

3

Hey, i was the same, was 16 when i had my first kiss, and kinda avoided most of the night. i dont know why! When he finally managed to stop me hiding it was amazing. And we kinda jumped in the deep end, no normal kissing on the lips, straight to the french kissing! Lol! Its really quite natural, let him lead you! Also, if he knows you havent kissed before, he should be more considerate of the fact and go slow rather than trying any rampant kissing!

Reply 8

Arminius

14

i think its good to not be too fast with the tongue, work up to it a bit.

Reply 9

jordanv

1

ramroff

how was he "gay obviously"? :confused:

he was kissing me?

i'm a man.

Reply 10

username18215

0

10

Make sure you take a deep breath before you go in. Many a teen has been lost to French Kissing.

Reply 11

roff

2

jordanv

he was kissing me?

i'm a man.

so are you gay? :confused:

Reply 12

Kismet

7

It's one og these things that you just know. It will come naturally. Everyone's probably worried about if they can kiss or not but it's useless. You can't practise kissing without a partner! If you try to learn the art of kissing by yourself and memorize all kind of weird lip movements and tongue techniques kissing will just probably feel starnge and unnatural... so don't stress about it, just go with the flow :smile:

Reply 13

jordanv

1

ramroff

so are you gay? :confused:

well I have relationships with women, and sex with men as flings.

so call me what you will.

back on topic: french kissing can be overdone. I've overdone it heaps (i have a long tongue).

Reply 14

Ariadne

16

Don't worry too much about it - it'll just come naturally. Also, don't panic if it feels really weird at first, you soon get used to it and then it's great! :wink:

Reply 15

Jitsu

OP

hmm, hopefully it will b alrite lol

Reply 16

Kismet

7

sweetie999

hmm, hopefully it will b alrite lol

It will, I'm sure of it! One tip though: put on lip balm so you'll lips will be nice and soft and moist :wink:

Reply 17

Lady_Muck

14

Well, if you're a man you're obviously gay then!

Golly, one of life's big mysteries sorted. Things you learn on TSR.

Reply 18

treff

1

Lady_Muck

Well, if you're a man you're obviously gay then!

Golly, one of life's big mysteries sorted. Things you learn on TSR.

Well, he CAN be bisexual...

Reply 19

Alias_Alyssa

1

meepmeep

Well, you could always practise on the back of your hand doing different things and seeing what feels nice. Practise makes perfect, so perservere!

Which so reminds me, when it comes to practicing...go watch Cruel Intentions...Sarah Michelle Gellar will teach you how to kiss!!! :biggrin:

timtom

Whatever you do, don't clash teeth, it's horrible when that happens! Start off with some normal kissing on the lips etc..then when you feel comfortable just kinda slip your tongue into his mouth.

I had a guy who clashed teeth with...its awful! But what was worse was recently I kissed a guy who has NO clue about kissing...him kissing me was like an episode of Sex And The City when Charlotte meets Brad (the puppy dog kisser) who licks all of her mouth...EWWW :embarasse He practically "raped" her face!!! Don't lick but quote (from Cruel Intentions) "Massage his tongue with yours"...

Z :dancing:

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