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Feel like this bloke is a pushy pest

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Hello

I am have admit that, whilst I am probably to blame, this guy that I have met is irriating me to a considerable degree. Ok I admit, my post is really sad but I still need advice. As in should I tell him to go away because he irriates me?. :confused:

I don't know if he is trying to start a relationship that I do not want.

We went out as mates (as I said I am to blame)

When I got back home I got a text

'Hi. Was just wondering do you have plans this weekend? If not would you like to head out for a bite to eat some where. Be nice 2 C U again

I says busy

Shame would have been good to see you. Never mind we'll have to make it some other time.

I say ok

Then tens minutes later

Let me know when you fancy going out again. Be nice to see you some time when your not busy

I say ok, but I have exams at uni soon

Then

drop me a line if you fancy going out again sometime when u not so busy with exams.

Will he take no for answer, should I say piss off because I found him really pushy when we went out

Reply 1

randomuser#6

text, "leave me alone u desperate freak." That will work :smile:

Reply 2

qwerty_st/n

11

ive exactly the same prob wi this guy i know, even when i had a bf and he knew that he still wouldnt leave me alone
then i made the mistake of letting him have my msn addy and i cant get rid of him
i wouldnt mind but ive done nothing to encourage him (i dont think)
plus he's a total creep
i tried telling him to piss off but he still bothers me an im like 'your stalking me now stoppit'
i dont know what to do and have no suggestions for you, all i can say is i feel your pain.

Reply 3

Lady Narcissus

OP

14

One good thing, he ain't texted today!

Reply 4

Lush Law

15

To be bonest, that doesn't seem that out of the ordinary. Maybe he just really likes you! I doubt he's a stalker !

Reply 5

Icy Ghost

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qwerty_st/n

ive exactly the same prob wi this guy i know, even when i had a bf and he knew that he still wouldnt leave me alone
then i made the mistake of letting him have my msn addy and i cant get rid of him
i wouldnt mind but ive done nothing to encourage him (i dont think)
plus he's a total creep
i tried telling him to piss off but he still bothers me an im like 'your stalking me now stoppit'
i dont know what to do and have no suggestions for you, all i can say is i feel your pain.

Block his MSN address and divert all his mail to the junk folder?

:smile:

Reply 6

thefish_uk

14

red_roadkill

To be bonest, that doesn't seem that out of the ordinary. Maybe he just really likes you! I doubt he's a stalker !

Hmph... sadly, some of us are so shy about it that we can't do anything to indicate that we like a girl except hang around them like a bad smell and chat to them at any opportunity, without ever getting the courage to ask for their mobile number or to go out. So how on earth we expect to actually start a relationship I don't know.

Reply 7

qwerty_st/n

11

Icy Ghost

Block his MSN address and divert all his mail to the junk folder?

:smile:

oh yeah

Reply 8

The_Shyster

2

Laura just tell him your gay. That should put his romantic notions to rest.

Reply 9

Lady Narcissus

OP

14

Hi shyster

Will do. It is not out of the ordinary is it really? He just mega pisses me off.

Reply 10

Catski

Yes I have one of those.
All I can suggest is stabbing him in the head; thats what I'll be trying next time I have the unpleasant experience of seeing 'it' face to face again.

Reply 11

Johnny 5

12

Post a thread on The Student Room, and accidentally arrange for him to recieve the link?

Reply 12

toipot2

1

Hes just trying to be nice!

Your all so mean

Reply 13

The_Shyster

2

he's pathetic. Big boys don't cry :smile:

Reply 14

toipot2

1

The_Shyster

he's pathetic. Big boys don't cry :smile:

Whos pathetic? :wtf?:

Hehe, yeah.

Just make it be known that you dont like him very much, but be subtle, or he may turn into a serial killer or something.

Reply 15

The_Shyster

2

I think we already suspect him of being a serial killer... the fact that he's talking to his dead mother pretty much gave it away. :biggrin:

Reply 16

Lady Narcissus

OP

14

Ha ha ha

I think I'll just ignore the texts and, then, may-be invent a fake new boy friend who is sexy gym hero (I wish)

Reply 17

Max Power

if u really want to put him off, just fart in his face.

i remember this time at school when this girl liked me. I smiled at her, leant over and farted right in her face. she never spoke to me again. job done.

true story.

Reply 18

The Ninja

11

I raise my glass to you, Max Power! You have a way with the ladys!

Reply 19

toipot2

1

Wow! talk about digestive system control!

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