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How to tell if someone is flirting with you...

Hi

For some reason I can never tell whether a girl is interested in me or not or whether she is trying to flirt with me.
I know that things like glancing may suggest someones interested in you but im talking about the more complex body language which suggests someone likes you.

This is quite frustrating for me and im sure that girls feel the same when they cant tell whether a guy fancies them or not.

I was wondering if anyone out there has any tips they've picked up over the years as to how to tell if a chicks interested in you -

girls, some of the gestures you may make if youre interested in a guy and guys - any tips you've got on telling if a chick fancies you.

Also, can any chicks describe what they would think of as a man flirting with them so i no how to flirt back :wink:

(thats if any chicks in the future actually EVER decide to fancy me lol :confused:

)

Please help - this is really killing me!!!!! :mad:

Reply 1

Icy Ghost

2

any tips you've got on telling if a chick fancies you.

Also, can any chicks describe what they would think of as a man flirting with them so i no how to flirt back (thats if any chicks in the future actually EVER decide to fancy me lol )

No... NO... NO! They won't flirt with you as long as you shall use this term.

Reply 2

Johnny 5

12

A girl at college has started smiling at me. Mentally, I am planning the wedding.

Reply 3

The_Shyster

2

maybe the guy likes Chickens! I won't judge you, you lover of all things fowl :smile:

Reply 4

killerbee

12

grab her tits and if she runs away, she doesnt like you
otherwise . . . i hope you're wearing clean undies :wink:

Reply 5

Johnny 5

12

Oh- if they laugh, that's good, right?

Reply 6

The_Shyster

2

unless they are laughing at you :smile:

Reply 7

Johnny 5

12

Bugger, I didn't think of that. *kills self*

Reply 8

toipot2

1

2 5 +

Bugger, I didn't think of that. *kills self*

Dont do that, youll be in the news and depress everyone

Reply 9

The_Shyster

2

I know, stop being so selfish. Killing yourself would make us depressed (some of us, not me). Have some respect soldier :smile:

Reply 10

TheLameSaint

1

He was joking.

Gosh.

Unless you guys were also joking, which is worse.

Reply 11

Kismet

7

Read this flirting guide: http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html

It's not anything like the flirting tips in Cosmo or something like that, it's pure scientific knowledge. I'm sure you'll be able to notice when someone's flirting with you after reading it. With the help of that guide you could even teach a robot to flirt.

It's really useful. Someone really should rep me for telling you about it :smile:

Reply 12

WorkinClassHero

Bloody hell its hard enough for me to work out if I fancy someone, let alone if someone fancies me. I know that sounds a bit weird but sometimes I see girls who are really pretty and I want to give them flowers and hold their hand and impress them with poetry, and sometimes I see girls who I want to do other stuff with (sorry if thats a bit crude), which one means you fancy them?

Reply 13

hugatree

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The_Shyster

maybe the guy likes Chickens! I won't judge you, you lover of all things fowl :smile:

This whole thread is funny. :biggrin:

And there's only 1 person who tried to help him out. I can't help you, I suck at it.

Reply 14

hugatree

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WorkinClassHero

Bloody hell its hard enough for me to work out if I fancy someone, let alone if someone fancies me. I know that sounds a bit weird but sometimes I see girls who are really pretty and I want to give them flowers and hold their hand and impress them with poetry, and sometimes I see girls who I want to do other stuff with (sorry if thats a bit crude), which one means you fancy them?

Awww @ the first thing... The poetry is a bit much but you sound romantic. :wink:

Reply 15

Kismet

7

WorkinClassHero

Bloody hell its hard enough for me to work out if I fancy someone, let alone if someone fancies me. I know that sounds a bit weird but sometimes I see girls who are really pretty and I want to give them flowers and hold their hand and impress them with poetry, and sometimes I see girls who I want to do other stuff with (sorry if thats a bit crude), which one means you fancy them?

When I fancy someone I want to do all the cute things like holding hands AND all the other stuff with them.

Reply 16

WorkinClassHero

Awww @ the first thing... The poetry is a bit much but you sound romantic.

Its a bit weird really, its not like I don't want to do stuff with the "poetry/flowers" girls, its just that the thought doesn't really occur to me very often cos I'm too busy thinking about "flowers/poetry" which according to my friends, makes me a wet.

Would you like some flowers?

Reply 17

Daragh

15

Do be warned though, some people are natural flirts, and they cant help but flirt. Always approach these things with an air of doubt until you can establish a good sense of how each individual 'operates'

Reply 18

Kismet

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WorkinClassHero

Its a bit weird really, its not like I don't want to do stuff with the "poetry/flowers" girls, its just that the thought doesn't really occur to me very often cos I'm too busy thinking about "flowers/poetry" which according to my friends, makes me a wet.

Would you like some flowers?

Wow, a guy that's thinking flowers and poetry instead of sex. Sweet. Lots of girls will appreciate that. I think that out of the two options you said it's the flower girls that you fancy, you're just physically attracted to the other girls because they're really sexy. Probably after all the poetry and flowers stuff you'll want to do other stuff with the girls that you fancy too. And all the other stuff will be as sweet as poetry and flowers :smile:

Reply 19

flipflop2

They usually try to talk to you, + the glances etc.

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