Boyfriend's obsession with analWatch
1. He is gay, not bi.
2. He has watched too much porn, so regular sex doesn't do it for him anymore.
Leaning towards number 1.
I'm sorry, but you're not "cool" for trying again and buying sex toys. You think you're a guy's best gf, one of those he brags about to his friends, but you're trying too hard. You're serving a secretely gay man. You should both get out of this mess.
This is a problem that has been going on for the whole of our relationship (about a year and a half) and it goes through phases of causing lots of problems, which is happening right now.
My boyfriend admits he has an obsession with anal. I have no problem with anal itself but we've tried it a couple of times and it's really not for me, and every time has ended up with my getting upset and him getting angry with himself for doing that to me, even when it was my idea.
The problem is that when we're having normal sex all he can think of is anal, and what he could be doing instead of just being in my vagina, and it kills the mood, partly because he doesn't enjoy it and partly because he feels guilty for thinking of other things and not being happy with regular sex.
How do we sort this out? I've said we can try anal again but the truth is I'm really not comfortable with it and REALLY hate it no matter how hard I try, and am really not comfortable with me/him playing with me there to begin with. But as it is it's ruining our sex life. He wants to be able to not think about it but can't control his thoughts.
Thanks for your help x
Why don't you take a dump on the right in front of him and then ask him if he still wants to do anal?
Because girls don't poo, don't you know anything?
it appears the weirdos have come out to play...
I don't know anything about anal, I wouldn't do it, but... try and make it better for you somehow?
If that doesn't work out, you're just too sexually incompatible and should probably end it.
For what it's worth, I don't think it's because he's gay. That's a silly conclusion to jump to. Just sayin'.
It arrived, definitely works. Now just need to wait for the boyfriend to get home!
I'm with you on this one. My bf has an obsession with anal also. He there's 3 things that he.talks about most: sucking him off, anal and wanting me to lick his ass. The biggest problem is he doesn't really like regular p/v sex. We don't do no other positions unless I'm riding him. He doesn't go down on me because he says he's saving that for marriage. I really like him and we've only been dating 5 mos. but I'm ready to move on