Boyfriend's obsession with anal

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It arrived, definitely works. Now just need to wait for the boyfriend to get home!
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It ruins your sex life, you don't like it, so why the hell would you keep doing it!

1. He is gay, not bi.
2. He has watched too much porn, so regular sex doesn't do it for him anymore.

Leaning towards number 1.
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I'm sorry, but you're not "cool" for trying again and buying sex toys. You think you're a guy's best gf, one of those he brags about to his friends, but you're trying too hard. You're serving a secretely gay man. You should both get out of this mess.
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I'm sorry, but you're not "cool" for trying again and buying sex toys. You think you're a guy's best gf, one of those he brags about to his friends, but you're trying too hard. You're serving a secretely gay man. You should both get out of this mess.
LOL
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(Original post by LemonKitty)
Hi,

This is a problem that has been going on for the whole of our relationship (about a year and a half) and it goes through phases of causing lots of problems, which is happening right now.

My boyfriend admits he has an obsession with anal. I have no problem with anal itself but we've tried it a couple of times and it's really not for me, and every time has ended up with my getting upset and him getting angry with himself for doing that to me, even when it was my idea.

The problem is that when we're having normal sex all he can think of is anal, and what he could be doing instead of just being in my vagina, and it kills the mood, partly because he doesn't enjoy it and partly because he feels guilty for thinking of other things and not being happy with regular sex.

How do we sort this out? I've said we can try anal again but the truth is I'm really not comfortable with it and REALLY hate it no matter how hard I try, and am really not comfortable with me/him playing with me there to begin with. But as it is it's ruining our sex life. He wants to be able to not think about it but can't control his thoughts.

Thanks for your help x
Why don't you take a dump on the right in front of him and then ask him if he still wants to do anal?
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Why don't you take a dump on the right in front of him and then ask him if he still wants to do anal?
Because girls don't poo, don't you know anything?
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Because girls don't poo, don't you know anything?
Oh yeh, I forgot, you shoot maltesers out your ass
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LOL

it appears the weirdos have come out to play...
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Well, you can't say you haven't tried.
I don't know anything about anal, I wouldn't do it, but... try and make it better for you somehow?

If that doesn't work out, you're just too sexually incompatible and should probably end it.


For what it's worth, I don't think it's because he's gay. That's a silly conclusion to jump to. Just sayin'.
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That hole is the forbidden hole for me and my gf. She did hint once if I would like to do anything to it, but afraid not. Anything else goes though.
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It arrived, definitely works. Now just need to wait for the boyfriend to get home!
update us yo
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It'll take a while to get as far as using it during anal, need to get used to using it myself, then he needs to get comfortable with it (he found it really weird and didn't like it much when he was using it on me) before we try that.
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I'm with you on this one. My bf has an obsession with anal also. He there's 3 things that he.talks about most: sucking him off, anal and wanting me to lick his ass. The biggest problem is he doesn't really like regular p/v sex. We don't do no other positions unless I'm riding him. He doesn't go down on me because he says he's saving that for marriage. I really like him and we've only been dating 5 mos. but I'm ready to move on
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(Original post by Rhonda 25)
I'm with you on this one. My bf has an obsession with anal also. He there's 3 things that he.talks about most: sucking him off, anal and wanting me to lick his ass. The biggest problem is he doesn't really like regular p/v sex. We don't do no other positions unless I'm riding him. He doesn't go down on me because he says he's saving that for marriage. I really like him and we've only been dating 5 mos. but I'm ready to move on
Can’t blame him for wanting his arse licked as it feels absolutely amazing. Very weird that he won’t go down on you though, any straight or bi guy should jump at the chance!!
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