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I dunno....

what to do.
I really really like this guy, and I have no idea how to tell him. I have no idea how he feels about me, and I'm worried that if he finds out our freindship will be ruined. I really dont know what to do. I have almost no confidence and fake it most of the time. I am really shy, and I'm new to the area, so I don't want to muck up brand new friendships. I just don't know what to do.
Please help
Trish xxxxxxx

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Reply 1
ask him to the cinema as a friend, and just see what happens... :smile:
Reply 2
trish xx
what to do.
I really really like this guy, and I have no idea how to tell him. I have no idea how he feels about me, and I'm worried that if he finds out our freindship will be ruined. I really dont know what to do. I have almost no confidence and fake it most of the time. I am really shy, and I'm new to the area, so I don't want to muck up brand new friendships. I just don't know what to do.
Please help
Trish xxxxxxx


The best way to deal with this, is to get to know him more maybe a :study session at your house :wink: What ever you do dont lose confidence-what ever happens. Confidence is key :cool:
"a study session"? pfft, I'm sure he'll see that one comming a mile off :wink:
Reply 4
Lucas123
The best way to deal with this, is to get to know him more maybe a :study session at your house :wink: What ever you do dont lose confidence-what ever happens. Confidence is key :cool:


how can she lose confidence if she never had it in the first place? seriously, just ask him to meet up for a coffee or whatever, then see what happens naturally :smile:
Reply 5
davesstones
how can she lose confidence if she never had it in the first place? seriously, just ask him to meet up for a coffee or whatever, then see what happens naturally :smile:

i dont even know if i have the confidence to ask him to meet up for coffee or anything. i start to say something like that and i totally loosewhatever confidence ive gathered together immediatly(sp?).
text him "u want coffee, baby, com on ova"... he'll get the picture :wink:
Reply 7
right... you are new to the area, he has befriended you, yes? i am assuming you have each other's mobile numbers. send a text with the following:

"hey, just wondered if you are busy on xxx day, u want to grab a coffee or something? trish x"

will work like a charm :smile:
Reply 8
Everyone's confidence is fake, thats what it is.
Reply 9
The_Shyster
text him "u want coffee, baby, com on ova"... he'll get the picture :wink:



Dont do that-you scare him off- just take your time, if its meant to be then it will happen.
Reply 10
The_Shyster
text him "u want coffee, baby, com on ova"... he'll get the picture :wink:

his phone is broken at the moment - he dropped it out a window when he was drunk - the window was on the 4th floor!
Reply 11
Guys are a lot less likely to let something like that ruin a friendship, so you're highly unlikely to have any worries there.

Just find a way to tell him how you feel. it'll save you both a lot of bother, frustration and fear.
Reply 12
but i dont have the confidence to do that, thats my problem
Trish, you don't want to go out with a drunk. I say dump him, or else we may see you on Trish-a anything soon :biggrin:
trish xx
but i dont have the confidence to do that, thats my problem



You need to be confident, just walk and talk like your a superstar :wink:
struct like a chicken, quack like a duck
The_Shyster
struct like a chicken, quack like a duck


Quack, Quack!
Reply 17
Yay ducks.
Reply 18
The_Shyster
Trish, you don't want to go out with a drunk. I say dump him, or else we may see you on Trish-a anything soon :biggrin:

hes not a drunk drunk, he just got pissed at a party thats all...
and anyway Trisha spells her name wrong - its spelt Tricia
Reply 19
There seems to be loads of posts about people having not enough confidence to do something.

We need a "Confidence Boosting!" thread