Do I see her during our break?

My girlfriend wants to take a break but still wants me to see her on Sunday. Do i go see her or what....what should I do??

Reply 1

frank01277779

dont you have enough useful replies in you're other thread? talk to her, find out why she wants a break, if u get the feeling that she doesnt want the relationship as much as you then i would leave it, dont see her, it'll give u false hope for the future+things...

Reply 2

Indu.Mitra

NakedNinja123

My girlfriend wants to take a break but still wants me to see her on Sunday. Do i go see her or what....what should I do??

Well what are the terms of the break? how long is it for? aks her that... I would go to see her... but i think its a bit confusing for you.. her asking for a break but still wanting to see you.. isnt the point of abreak that she wants her space? theres no harm in going to see her..i dont think.. it depends on why she wanted one.

Reply 3

Jayjayjay

Sometimes it is called having your cake and eating it, sorry to say. Entirely up to you =0)

Reply 4

zhivago

Ask her on what terms does she want to see you; as a boyfriend or as a mate? It could be that she wants a break because she just wants her individualism back, I know that sometimes being in relationship literally feels like being one half of something else. So perhaps she really values you as a person, and just needs to be free of a relationship. It could be, however, that she wants a break because she likes someone else but is trying to decide between you and them, and doesn't want to lose either! :p:

But that's merely cynicism. Just ask her on what terms are you meeting up to be clear; and if you don't want to go - don't. She'll have to respect your wishes, and she instigated the change.