"Friends" keep going out without me

Well if you hear them making plans go and ask if you can come to

Seriously I don't mean to be blunt and I know it's not what you want to hear, but maybe these friends aren't worth it? They obviously don't value you enough if they're not asking you out so best off finding some friends who actually like you, I've been in the same boat in different scenarios and you slowly have to acknowledge that some friends aren't worth keeping. I hope it all works out for you anyway.

Okay, before I start I'm not the type of person to get into arguments, I actually can't think of the last time I argued with someone, with the exception of my brother and sister lol. I understand that people aren't joint at the hip and have the right to go out with who they please. The first couple of times they went out without me, I was fine, didn't bother me at all. But recently the past couple of months my friends have been going out without me. I'm close with 3 other people, I've known 2 of them for 14 years now.

I don't know how to expain this and I don't really know what I'm after but I'm just fed up. It's upsetting when you're being left out, usually I'd just man up and let it go over my head but it's starting to really get me down now. I don't mind it they want to go out without me but there must be a point when they decide not to text me, if I organise something for us to do I ALWAYS ask all 3 of them because well, we're all friends. It's the fact that there must be a reason for them not to ask me. I'm really confused about it all because I thought it was because they kept going out to this one place that I didn't like going to, and fair enough, I wouldn't go so there was no need to ask, if anything they were thinking about me. But recently, they've been going shopping and on nights out without asking me.

I know this must be so boring to read, and you're probably thinking "go get some new friends, they're not worth it , blah blah blah" But it's not as easy as that.
I know how upset they get when they're not invited out, so why would you do that to someone else?
Also I asked everyone if they wanted to go to town last week, and one of them said "yeah" the other said "no money" and the other didn't bother texting me back. So I left it at that. Next thing I know on facebook, their statuses are "had a great night, don't want it to end" etc... Had enough of it.

I don't know how to go about it without sounding like a whiny annoying person, because that's not me, I'm so laid back I'm horizontal. It takes a lot to upset me, but I want to know why I'm not being asked, they've obviously not forgotten about me because when I'm with them they act normal, and they talk about their "outings" but I feel sooo left out but they're not hiding it from me. How do I go about this? or should I just pretend like it's not bothering me and just act normal?
We're going out in a big group tonight, and I just cba with them! I'm going on holiday with them and 2 other people next year Hopefully going to uni next year though, and that's keeping me going at the moment.

Okay, before I start I'm not the type of person to get into arguments, I actually can't think of the last time I argued with someone, with the exception of my brother and sister lol. I understand that people aren't joint at the hip and have the right to go out with who they please. The first couple of times they went out without me, I was fine, didn't bother me at all. But recently the past couple of months my friends have been going out without me. I'm close with 3 other people, I've known 2 of them for 14 years now.

I don't know how to expain this and I don't really know what I'm after but I'm just fed up. It's upsetting when you're being left out, usually I'd just man up and let it go over my head but it's starting to really get me down now. I don't mind it they want to go out without me but there must be a point when they decide not to text me, if I organise something for us to do I ALWAYS ask all 3 of them because well, we're all friends. It's the fact that there must be a reason for them not to ask me. I'm really confused about it all because I thought it was because they kept going out to this one place that I didn't like going to, and fair enough, I wouldn't go so there was no need to ask, if anything they were thinking about me. But recently, they've been going shopping and on nights out without asking me.

I know this must be so boring to read, and you're probably thinking "go get some new friends, they're not worth it , blah blah blah" But it's not as easy as that.
I know how upset they get when they're not invited out, so why would you do that to someone else?
Also I asked everyone if they wanted to go to town last week, and one of them said "yeah" the other said "no money" and the other didn't bother texting me back. So I left it at that. Next thing I know on facebook, their statuses are "had a great night, don't want it to end" etc... Had enough of it.

I don't know how to go about it without sounding like a whiny annoying person, because that's not me, I'm so laid back I'm horizontal. It takes a lot to upset me, but I want to know why I'm not being asked, they've obviously not forgotten about me because when I'm with them they act normal, and they talk about their "outings" but I feel sooo left out but they're not hiding it from me. How do I go about this? or should I just pretend like it's not bothering me and just act normal?
We're going out in a big group tonight, and I just cba with them! I'm going on holiday with them and 2 other people next year Hopefully going to uni next year though, and that's keeping me going at the moment.

Did she reply to you when you said you were running late? 15 minutes does not sound that late to be honest since you did inform her, so it seems kinda rude of them. Maybe ask why? Maybe it was her parents who wanted to leave?

Okay, before I start I'm not the type of person to get into arguments, I actually can't think of the last time I argued with someone, with the exception of my brother and sister lol. I understand that people aren't joint at the hip and have the right to go out with who they please. The first couple of times they went out without me, I was fine, didn't bother me at all. But recently the past couple of months my friends have been going out without me. I'm close with 3 other people, I've known 2 of them for 14 years now.

I don't know how to expain this and I don't really know what I'm after but I'm just fed up. It's upsetting when you're being left out, usually I'd just man up and let it go over my head but it's starting to really get me down now. I don't mind it they want to go out without me but there must be a point when they decide not to text me, if I organise something for us to do I ALWAYS ask all 3 of them because well, we're all friends. It's the fact that there must be a reason for them not to ask me. I'm really confused about it all because I thought it was because they kept going out to this one place that I didn't like going to, and fair enough, I wouldn't go so there was no need to ask, if anything they were thinking about me. But recently, they've been going shopping and on nights out without asking me.

I know this must be so boring to read, and you're probably thinking "go get some new friends, they're not worth it , blah blah blah" But it's not as easy as that.
I know how upset they get when they're not invited out, so why would you do that to someone else?
Also I asked everyone if they wanted to go to town last week, and one of them said "yeah" the other said "no money" and the other didn't bother texting me back. So I left it at that. Next thing I know on facebook, their statuses are "had a great night, don't want it to end" etc... Had enough of it.

I don't know how to go about it without sounding like a whiny annoying person, because that's not me, I'm so laid back I'm horizontal. It takes a lot to upset me, but I want to know why I'm not being asked, they've obviously not forgotten about me because when I'm with them they act normal, and they talk about their "outings" but I feel sooo left out but they're not hiding it from me. How do I go about this? or should I just pretend like it's not bothering me and just act normal?
We're going out in a big group tonight, and I just cba with them! I'm going on holiday with them and 2 other people next year Hopefully going to uni next year though, and that's keeping me going at the moment.

Ask. That is the only way to know why they are doing what they are doing. This is currently happening to me. And I have asked, and the one time I did it at least appeared to be a misunderstanding. However people do lie, put eventually the truth will show. So if you are feeling very unhappy, find new friends, or wait. Time will eventually show you who your friends are. Best of luck to you, and honestly you are not whiny, this is hurtful and people have feelings so dont blame yourself for feeling bad.

Ask. That is the only way to know why they are doing what they are doing. This is currently happening to me. And I have asked, and the one time I did it at least appeared to be a misunderstanding. However people do lie, put eventually the truth will show. So if you are feeling very unhappy, find new friends, or wait. Time will eventually show you who your friends are. Best of luck to you, and honestly you are not whiny, this is hurtful and people have feelings so dont blame yourself for feeling bad.