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Signs a guy likes you

if you're talking to a guy, are there things he would do i.e. certain body language, to show that he likes you subconsciously....? does he speak differently?

Reply 1

Amlea

1

yeah please tell...i'm curious about this too

Reply 2

black_mamba

14

Trying to ram his tongue down your throat may be a sign.

:eek:

Reply 3

AmyGrace

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black_mamba

Trying to ram his tongue down your throat may be a sign.

:eek:

you dont say :eek:

Reply 4

ProfessorFitBoy

2

If its any help i tend to look at fit gals as much as possible... well obviously :wink:

Reply 5

Bubble Fairy

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ComebackQueen

if you're talking to a guy, are there things he would do i.e. certain body language, to show that he likes you subconsciously....? does he speak differently?

- gets as close as possibly to you at any opportunity
- lots of eye contact
- loads of text msgs
- smiling at you
- when in a gang of mates you catch him checking you out
- teasing you

Reply 6

Johnny 5

12

If he's anything like me, he speaks differently, yes. He might also smile.

Reply 7

supercat

2

I've heard he sticks his hands in his pockets and points his thumbs towards his, umm, area. It's a sociobiological thing - he wants babies, so directs your attention towards his, umm, baby making area.
I also heard that if he mimics your behaviour, e.g. touching his hair when you touch yours, he likes you. Or he reads Cosmopolitan.

Reply 8

Sami C

1

There any many reasons you can tell, but in each point I will make, the polar opposite applies as well as guys are different.

1. I make more of an effort to keep eye contact. However, some guys could avoid it so loads of eye contact or none at all could be sign (although the latter could be boredom!)

2. I tend to disagree with a lot she is saying, try to get a discussion going, without being rude, so when I leave she will think about me and the conversation. However, some guys could agree with anything you say as love you, so either extremes and you have a chance.

3. I also have the habit of moving away if she touches me or if she brushes against me jumping away. It's really weird. I long for more touches but I can't help it. The other extreme is that the guy could just want to be hugged all the time or always hug you, touch your hand. So either one and there is a chance.

4. If I having a conversation alone with her and somebody interrupts that will visibly annoy me, as i'm enjoying it and trying to get in there. So if somebody joins your conversation and he bottles up that could be a sign, but its a longshot.

5. There's there standard procedure of you catching the guy looking at you. I actually deliberatly try to get her to catch me looking and then hold the look before looking away and trying to cooly rejoin a conversation around me. Equally if he stops what he doing to talk to you or smile at you that's another sign.

That's the best I can do.

Reply 9

supercat

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OH! And if they're annoying, e.g. steal your pencil, pull your hair...that's a bit primary school though.

Reply 10

toipot2

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Sami C

There any many reasons you can tell, but in each point I will make, the polar opposite applies as well as guys are different.

1. I make more of an effort to keep eye contact. However, some guys could avoid it so loads of eye contact or none at all could be sign (although the latter could be boredom!)

2. I tend to disagree with a lot she is saying, try to get a discussion going, without being rude, so when I leave she will think about me and the conversation. However, some guys could agree with anything you say as love you, so either extremes and you have a chance.

3. I also have the habit of moving away if she touches me or if she brushes against me jumping away. It's really weird. I long for more touches but I can't help it. The other extreme is that the guy could just want to be hugged all the time or always hug you, touch your hand. So either one and there is a chance.

4. If I having a conversation alone with her and somebody interrupts that will visibly annoy me, as i'm enjoying it and trying to get in there. So if somebody joins your conversation and he bottles up that could be a sign, but its a longshot.

5. There's there standard procedure of you catching the guy looking at you. I actually deliberatly try to get her to catch me looking and then hold the look before looking away and trying to cooly rejoin a conversation around me. Equally if he stops what he doing to talk to you or smile at you that's another sign.

That's the best I can do.

:dito:
Pretty much described me there :eek:

Reply 11

Dark and Lovely

OP

15

if you ask him stuff and he asks you the same back, is he interested or jus being polite?

Reply 12

toipot2

1

ComebackQueen

if you ask him stuff and he asks you the same back, is he interested or jus being polite?

Thats probably just conversation extending.

I do that with everyone.

Reply 13

34253

2

You can do a couple tests:
When you are just sitting there look into his eyes and smile - If he smiles back he likes you, if he says 'what whats wrong' he probably doesn't.
When you are sitting near each other in class mix up your stuff with theres and if they like you they will leave it, if they seperate it out then they dont...

These arnt exactly 100% likely to work and i cant remember the other 1 i knew but if your interested they work on girls aswell (which is why i no :smile:

)

Reply 14

fleur-de-lis

1

Ok, apart from some good insights above:-
* He looks deep into your eyes (often making you uncomfortable)
* You can catch him staring at you often, and looking away guiltily when caught staring. If he holds the stare, then he probably sees you as a friend
* Sits near you during classes and suggests events to do together
* Walks you back home if it is past 11!
* He leans into your body space (in other words, he stands closer to you)
* Usually isn't happy if you touch his arm or shoulder or anything. If he sees you as a friend, he wouldn't mind you having your arm around him
* If he is way taller than you, it is very probable that he would stoop down to your height while talking.
* He isn't happy seeing others talking to you
* He can be incredibly shy while talking or over-confident
* Blushing!!!
Ok, all of this is only when he is in the liking/early love stage, the pre-date time or during the first few dates.

Reply 15

mangomaz

14

You catch him staring at your erm chest area. More than once.

Reply 16

Johnny 5

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fleur-de-lis

Ok, apart from some good insights above:-
* He looks deep into your eyes (often making you uncomfortable)

I did that one on Friday. She told me I was "scaring her", and I'm not quite sure how serious she was being.
Needless to say, this slightly destroyed my confidence.

Reply 17

fleur-de-lis

1

^I would run away from such guys :p:

* Probable that he might be staring at your lips.
What does that mean?

Reply 18

fleur-de-lis

1

2 5 +

I did that one on Friday. She told me I was "scaring her", and I'm not quite sure how serious she was being.
Needless to say, this slightly destroyed my confidence.

Very true... it kind of makes me squirm when a guy looks deep into my eyes. I either feel like running away or giving a slap or looking at anything else but him. It makes me feel as if I am under a microscope (or probably means that I am scared of commitment) and as if you are totally vulnerable without any shell to protect you.

Reply 19

Cherry Kisses

13

Their pupils become larger if they are attracted to you.... its a scientific fact

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