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Weird X!

Around a month or so back, I boke up with my X. Any how we have since then kept as friends and tried to keep the contact on the phone to a minimum.

Anyway as mates everything was fine and I was slowly getting used to not being in a relationship with her.
Yesterday was the first time I went out for the whole day and actually enjoyed myself.

I must of been returning home around 8pm, when my friend phones me up and tells me her MSN name is saying 'I LUV U is an 8 letter word and so is ********'.
I said it surely cant be for me as im on the train lol

Anyway I get home and get on msn. For some reason she had blocked and deleted me off the account that I made for her and was using uptil now.
I signed on that account and she basically had deleted all her contacts leaving myne still there.

I knew her passwords to her other accounts so I tried signing on there, but the passwords were changed.
Fair enough shes back on her old accounts.
Now heres the part I dont understand -
Friday Night I spoke to her on the phone at night for a good 20mins, just a friendly convo and she even thanked me before I went.

When I get home today I find out shes blocked me on her other adds and is not explained why.

I see 2 possibilities -
Either shes found sum 1 new
or
Shes trying to start off fresh

Either way I think I have a right to know and she isnt bothering.

We dated for almost 1 year and throughout the relationship, she had allot of problems and I would support her the best I could even when half of the time she would make little things out of big things.

To turn round after that long and treat me as a stranger really hurts.
All night I hardly got any sleep, trying to make sense of why a person would do this.

Any ideas?

Reply 1

Indus1986

Never stay friends with an ex, I don't understand people who do.

Reply 2

chris101

Aint easy to forget your real 1st LUV. Ive never found luv in any past relationships. This is the first time I found some 1 who was almost perfect for me. I say almost as she had allot of backage relating to the past as well.
I find it hard to let go of people regardless who.
I think mayb as im an only child and live in a society where most people my age are into clubbin, causing mischief and messing about.

Reply 3

CherryGarcia

may be she wants your attention and is trying to get it that way???

Reply 4

chris101

I very much doubt it, I called her up no reply & text.
Shes not just blocked me, she blocked my other mates who we both know so that way I cant find out if shes online or not.

I had a event logger on msn it said 'y is it everytime I attempt to leave I jus dont??? ;('
then an hour later she changed it to 'Im a m8 when it suits you and den a bi*ch, mayb I shud disappear for another 6 months again, make you all happy'

2 Hours later I got home and read all these events.
Im assuming these comments were to some 1 else or shes really really attention seeking.

Heres a part to note -
3 weeks ago she told my m8 that she was going to have an op in november but she didnt want to tell me as she didnt want me to worry. She told me instead shes getting rid of her phone and net from november to january cause of exams.

Recently she canceled her contract and told me she didnt want one no more. She then goes asking my frineds if they know about good contracts.

I called her up 4 days ago and shes tells me she looking for a contract and she can get me disocunt as well.
She tells me she will call tommorow.
I hang up and she send me a msn message minutes after saying she spoke to her contact and she will sort it out and tuesday and not to worry she will get it for me as well.