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Frenuloplasty!
hi folks, i'm having a frenuloplasty sometime soon, hospital hasn't set a date yet!
I was just wondering if anyone on here has had one or knows someone who's had one? if you do, could you either write about it, or PM me, i'd really like to know what's it's actually like, because i'm really worried about it... simple things, like what's the best style of underwear to wear afterwards? do you have to shave your pubes before the operation? how long is it before you can have sex or masturbate again?
Thanks for your help guys...
Tom
I was just wondering if anyone on here has had one or knows someone who's had one? if you do, could you either write about it, or PM me, i'd really like to know what's it's actually like, because i'm really worried about it... simple things, like what's the best style of underwear to wear afterwards? do you have to shave your pubes before the operation? how long is it before you can have sex or masturbate again?
Thanks for your help guys...
Tom
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Reply 1
forgive my ignorance, but what is it~?
Reply 2
lenghthening of the penile frenulum... for phimosis
Reply 3
ooh, interesting! Not sure about the answers to be honest, after my bf's circumcision it was three weeks i think, not sure if it's the same or not! Good luck with that!
Reply 4
Thanks... i may well have to have that anyway, if this doesn't work. 
Thanks!
T
Thanks!
T
Reply 5
Can i ask what the problem is or am i getting too personal?
Reply 6
http://www.surgerydoor.co.uk/so/detail2.asp?level2=Penis%20Frenuloplasty
i dont know why im posting that link becuase you must have read it already...if not ...i hope its of some help
i dont know why im posting that link becuase you must have read it already...if not ...i hope its of some help
Reply 7
i have read it, several times in fact... but the thought was there, it means a lot that people i don't even know are so kind and helpful!
Thanks!
T
Thanks!
T
Reply 8
ok, read said link, understand now. My bf didnt get the option of one of those, just straight to the circumcision
Reply 9
I think you'll be told to wait 3 months its similar to circumsition so. Erm, the under question is difficult. some would say lose because its not directly rubbing, but then you must kinda "bounce" and rub anyway. Some would say tight to restrict movement! You'll be keeping it kept in a bandage most likely to begin with (not certain) so just see what feels right after that
Reply 10
it's not too personal at all... being that i don't know you, i don't find it difficult to talk to you!
presumably you know now anyway! I think i'd prefer this option and then have the possibility to move on to the circumcision, but i have that first, i'd never have known if the more simple procedure would have sufficed, you know?!
T
presumably you know now anyway! I think i'd prefer this option and then have the possibility to move on to the circumcision, but i have that first, i'd never have known if the more simple procedure would have sufficed, you know?!
T
Reply 11
Ye, true! Having never been with somone with a foreskin its kinda convenient it not being there! though the obvious draw back being he's now harder to please! GRR
Reply 12
Lauren Hart
I think you'll be told to wait 3 months its similar to circumsition so. Erm, the under question is difficult. some would say lose because its not directly rubbing, but then you must kinda "bounce" and rub anyway. Some would say tight to restrict movement! You'll be keeping it kept in a bandage most likely to begin with (not certain) so just see what feels right after that
i hope it's not really that long!! dear god!...
i've been advised to wear briefs for the first week and then loose boxers after that!... but not really sure about pubic shaving, dnt know if i should do it, or leave it for a nurse to do!
Reply 13
Yuo won't need circumcision--i would avoid that if i were you
Reply 14
naivesincerity
Yuo won't need circumcision--i would avoid that if i were you
really, thankfully i am NOT! having that unless it's absolutely necessary? do you have a problem with it then?
Reply 15
You dont know he wont you arent his doctor! In some cases its the only viable option! If stretching doesnt work what's he meant to do? have painful sex! Better the circumcision my boy!
And as for the three weeks! I used to laugh and say my bf wouldnt get through it, he survived ok! LOL
And as for the three weeks! I used to laugh and say my bf wouldnt get through it, he survived ok! LOL
Reply 16
my gf keeps telling me i won't get through it! lol
Reply 17
tom_pinnock54
really, thankfully i am NOT! having that unless it's absolutely necessary? do you have a problem with it then?
Well, the point of frenuloplasty is to make the foreskin normally retractable
Reply 18
naivesincerity
Well, the point of frenuloplasty is to make the foreskin normally retractable
it does, so you shouldn't need circumcision as well, otherwise they'd just do that in the first place
Reply 19
It doesnt always work! Be prepared for the possibility! And trust me, you'll get through it just to spite your gf!
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